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The Praise Paradox by Po Bronson and Ashley Merryman was an article that provided an interesting experience while reading. While reading I was having reoccurring flashbacks of my childhood because I was constantly reminded of countless situations in which my family provided countless praise during my Jr. High years. Nevertheless, the article is based on the work efforts and actions of students who are showered with academic praise from their parents and/or teachers. Bronson goes into the reasons why praise is given to students. The most interesting note that was provided was the fact that parents believe they are doing the right thing when providing praise for their students. Parents believe that academic praise will encourage their students

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