Ken's Case: Intra And Interpersonal Competency

Ken has lots of problems. The problems can be identified as intra and interpersonal competencies. After the investigation, I discovered that there are 3 major problems of him. In the following paragraphs, I will list out the problems one by one and provide a suitable solution for each problem respectively. At the end of the assignment, there will be a conclusion to summarize all the possible problems and solutions.

Since Ken is an honor student in high school, he expected that he could get a good result and get into the university instead of staying in the College. In case, his self-value has lower. The self-esteem has been declined from the moment he got the DSE result. As self-esteem is an important component of Self-Concept, he remains …show more content…
In case, the relationship between Ken and his parents is close. Therefore, deep interpersonal trust is built. Ken could then try to disclose himself starting by ‘I’ statement. This is a more positive method. Moreover, non-verbal language such as body language and change in voice and harmony are also important to Ken to disclose himself. However, some criticism will be response by his parents. In this situation, Ken should stand agree with the criticism and state the solution, how to solve the problems and how to prevent it (Hanna et al., 2010). Ken has done some solution: to apply the program from the Community College. He should also explain how to prevent unexpected results occurred again. After that, his parents may satisfy with him. Finally, Ken could solve a …show more content…
He thought that, he and his high school friends are in distances, which are very difference with him. Besides, he could not meet friends at College as he thinks that he do not need to do so. Ken loses the communication with old friends, but he does not make new friends and being alone. Nobody knows his situation.

Friendship, almost important to a person and has high value to a person (Hanna et al., 2010). However, there are some problems when building up a friendship. Dilemma such as neglect will occur. Ken does not contact with his old friends, this makes the situation more badly. He does nothing on the relationship between friends, A healthy relationship cost time and energy. If you do not hold positive interactions to your friends, such as having positive attitude and create interesting conversation, the interaction is not healthy (Hanna et al., 2010).

What should Ken need to do, is try to use some time to contact with old friends. He may then feel there is someone who will talk to him, know what he is thinking. Also, he should avoid thinking make friends in College is worthwhile. Everyone is equal. Friends could help you to solve