Young People’s Expectation for Marriage and the Reality of Married Life
Young people’s expectation for marriage and the reality of married life It is fact that every young people anticipate an ideal and satisfied marriage in their life. However, people cannot usually get their expectation due to a cruel “guy” named reality. It just acts as a rational spectator to remain us sometimes we have to compromise instead of following heart and will. Actually, there are several similarities between expectation and reality of marriage. Specifically, there will be full of laughs, quarrels and problems. But I have to say that there have more distinct differences between them. Sometimes young people cannot get married with people whom they love truthfully; they have to handle with daily work instead of doing romantic things that they imagine before they get real marriage; they also have no choice to live with their parents, while they hope they can buy new house to have more private room and time. One featured difference between the expectation and reality of marriage is that with whom they will get married. Young people hope to get married with people whom they love. However, it is the normal in the reality of married life that their parents will help them pick up a rich person who possesses a lot of fortune. As a result, the partners are forced to depart from each other. In my country, there are endless of meetings designed to help those millionaires, who are single or the divorced, to choose wives. Certainly, there will have thousands of girls and females flooding into the meeting to compete. It is so hard to know whether they love or will love each other in the future. Obviously, the young people just yield to the reality---social status, money, and good background, and the difference of whom they choose to get married is a fact. Just as an old saying, “we have no qualification to talk about love if we do not have milk and bread.” Another distinction between expectation and reality of marriage is the life style. It is