Society’s negative view of failure seems to be prevalent today, but younger generations don’t seem as afraid of failure as previous generations. Zinsser believes that this is a step toward a more personalized, individual view of success and failure, where people can fail without fear and have their own gage of success.…
failures as ways of becoming smarter as you learn from each and every one of them. The…
When faced with a hardship in life,certain aspects of people can change negatively. Even though an individual can become a more generous and caring person after experiencing a life changing event, that is not always the case. When an individual who has lived a perfect and successful life attempts to fulfill a task, and their attempt is in vain, how will they react to their own personal failure? Despite the possible positive outcomes, the negative ones are more likely to occur, such as: melancholy, self-loathing, fear of persevering, etc. Not everyone in the world is full of positivity…
THE FEAR OF FAILURE “I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”…
Disappointment is not the last straw. Sometimes it happens for a reason, teaches you a lesson, sometimes it is followed by success...we must not give up no matter how long it takes.…
Whenever I faced a failure in my life, I almost lost every hope that motivates me, I started to blaming myself that I had given my best to get the best result out of it, but still, I haven’t got the results.…
Therefore, no matter the goal you are trying to reach, always know failure comes with the enjoyment of success. If I felt like a failure after finding out I did not receive the opportunity to be accepted into the school, I would not have been able to push myself to become greater. Try and you shall succeed. If being successful or achieving a goal was easy; many people would be successful already. However, since being successful or achieving a goal takes a great deal of time and comes with failure; some people rather give up than keep on…
Failure is not something an individual can avoid. We all make mistakes because we are imperfect. Thus, we need to look at ways that help us overcome a situation we had failed at. According to “Rich in Thought: Not every Olympian Gets a Medal” by Richard Paloma, he states,” Mistakes are tools for learning- not indicators of poor ability” (paragraph 7). Whether it’s losing a soccer game, failing a test, or coming last in a race we all have failures. Three ways that I have made a mistake, but learned from it are failure’s on a school history final, the loss of my soccer game, and stealing from Target.…
In life, everyone will fail at something. Failure is defined as lack of success, or the inablitity to meet a goal. Failing, however, is not giving up. Failing is motivation to push yourself to your max potential. Winston Churchill once said “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” This quote has been the backbone to my drive and passion in playing basketball.…
Any future event has a certain degree of uncertainty. A varying array of emotions accompanies all outcomes. In this paper, the premise expectation is the root of all heartache will be observed. This simply implies that the desired outcome of a situation, frequently disconfirmed, results in negative feelings (Zeelenberg, 2010). The purpose of this paper is to define the inherent uncertainty the future holds, while arguing why expectation fails to meet reality, ultimately leading to negative emotions characterized by disappointment and dismay.…
No matter how big or small your failure is, you can learn from it. Using your mistakes to improve on yourself is something that is a great characteristic to have even though it can be very difficult. When you are faced with unexpected challenges that lead to failure it is all about how you respond to them. You can either let them bring you down or fight to accomplish your next goal and using the lessons you learned make it so much…
There are many ways and reasons why we become disappointed.People can feel disappointment in themselves or others .Sometime we are disappointed in a movie that we have seen or a concert we have attended. Disappointment is feeling you get when your team looses the baseball game. The feeling you get when you do not get that promotion at work in witch you have worked so hard that disappointment. Parents have high expectations for their children so when you get bad marks on your report card they feel Disappointment toward you.…
Failure is still an ugly word but because of it I have grown as a person. I still do not like to fail or aim to fail, but I understand that failure is a part of life. I have come to learn from mistakes and move forward. I will rebuild my imperfect castle as many times as it takes and continue to move forward on the path I…
Albert Ellis thinks that whenever we expect things always to go on smoothly and fall to where we want them to land, we end up being disappointed and frustrated whenever it goes the other way around. Yes, I agree on this. We should not put too much expectation on certain things because in the end, whatever the result may be, we either smile or shed a tear. But somehow, we can’t avoid putting expectations on something, especially when you know that you did your best to achieve what you wanted to get. For example, you studied hard for an exam and all of a sudden, your teacher failed you just because you didn’t copy the questions on the board even although you got the highest score. So, in response to the decision of your teacher, you get very disappointed. I don’t think the irrational belief of Albert Ellis is applicable for this situation. Sometimes, we get disappointed or emotionally troubled for both rational and irrational…
Does disappointment really make one stronger? Personally, I think that disappointments help one to be stronger. Everyone has felt disappointed at least once in their lives. When someone disappoints you, you will feel sad as the person has not tried his best in that particular area.…