What Should You Do If You Are Being Backbited?
What should you do if you are being backbited ? All of us always want to be congratulated by other people. But what if you suddenly being bakbited ? what should you do? Firstly, who can backbite you in this world?It could be anyone such as your jealously neighborhood when you seem to be better than her child. It also can be one of the girl at class when she thinks that you expressed your intelligent too much. Or the girl at the extra class always looks at you with an annoyed eyes because of your unique style. For further area, it can be an unknow person in Facebook that can’t get along with you when he tries to talk and you tries to ignore it. Eventhough, when you and your best friend are mad at each other she can also turns out to backbite you. Sencondly, what are the reasons for being backbited? It can cuased when you are too highlight like go to school by family car, use high technology, sutdy well and you laways want to showw that off for everyone can see. Or it can happen when you are too tecciturn, shy,afraid to make friends, the breaking time, you just stay in class and read comic, stay in a corner whnever you came to canteen. Don’t accept the friend request from strangers on Facebook, don’t reply emails or massengers from strangers can also the tools for people to backbite you. Finaaly, what should you do in that case? Just stay calm and relax.Don’t be panic when heard that somebody is gossiped the bad things about you, instead of that, try to look into it in another view. Look at yourself back and see if you are really arrogance, selfish…? You can ák for advice from mom to make sure that those aspersions are true. Next is to change yourself if you are having those faults, that is the best way to erase all the aspersions. The worse thing is to find out that your best friend is backbite at you, in this case, try to have a candid conversation with she/he and ask for the reason why he/she doing that. In