we live in the age

We live in the age of science and technology. We seem having communication all the time, but in fact is just a link. Email, Twitter, or Facebook, they are everywhere, in all aspects, such as politics, business, love, friendship. But no matter how much they are worth, they can not replace the real dialogue The same time Communication networks become larger and also become emptier, as the same for all of us. In this real-time communication network, we are under unprecedented isolation: Contact more widely, lonely become more increasingly. Facebook is the social networking website have 845 million users and carry earnings of $3.7 billion last year, last summer, Facebook is the first website page have views over 1 trillion. In the last three months of 2011, Facebook users posted 2.7 billion comments every day. Although this is very popular, perhaps because of this, from the beginning, Facebook became questionable because all of us have experienced such a time, staring at a computer screen, eager to reply. The behavior we act in social networks is nothing more than to make them "being seen". Being seem by other people, feel love from other people’s view,, it can raise the enthusiasm even if it is likely to be just an illusion or wishful thinking. In order to get other’s agreeable , we display the best self in the social networking, then it became a show – show the happiness, loving, and other variety of performances, but if there are no response from others, we fall in a huge loss or anxiety. It seems that social media is also a double-edged sword, both has brought the freedom of information sharing, but also bring some negative problems. Therefore, we should not put all of the time spent on social networks, at the right time, can choose to read a book, or face-to-face communication with friends, and travel to outside Loneliness is the deep inside feeling, it has nothing to do with the connection or the number of frequency, but associated with the quality and significance of connection. You can still feel deeply lonely in the noise of the guests. Marriage will reduce a person's loneliness, but the premise is your marriage is happy, otherwise the marriage will only make you more lonely, just like Facebook more us more lonely. Now, we are so accustomed to connection status, that being alone become an impossible thing in our life. Even if only for a few seconds, people will become anxiety, and panic, always ready to take out a cellular phone, share about your own thoughts and emotions. We finally realized the change in our life is “In the past, "I had an idea, I'd like to call to tell people"; now it become "I want to have an idea, so I can send text messages to tell someone".