Preview

The Whooping Law

Good Essays
Open Document
Open Document
1121 Words
Grammar
Grammar
Plagiarism
Plagiarism
Writing
Writing
Score
Score
The Whooping Law
Marsha Long
English 155
Peggy Thomsen, PhD
15 February 2011
“The whooping law”
"I wish that all fathers of households stand forth and practice their role. They will use the rod and not permit their children to go astray. Firmness is needed in your world that is filled with laxity, permissiveness, and degradation. "Your children have been misled by many who shall answer to the Father. As teachers they have failed in their role. Therefore, as parents you must succeed in yours." - St. Joseph, March 18, 1973. Is spanking an effective means of discipline for kids, or does it merely teach them to be violent? Fewer topics have generated so much emotion as whether to spank or not. First, what does the law say? Is it illegal to spank your kids? The answer is no-but parents who spank must be very careful to avoid running afoul of the law. California law defines child abuse to include any case in which a child exhibits evidence of skin bruising, bleeding, failure to thrive, burns, fractures, etc. and the condition is not justifiably explained or the circumstances indicate that the condition was not accidental. For purposes of the child abuse law, parental discipline through spanking may not be justifiable if the child is bruised or otherwise injured. Thus, spanking is not illegal, but injuring a child is.
Apart from the legalities, is spanking a good idea? Does it work? According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, about 90 percent of U.S. parents spank, and about 59 percent of pediatricians in a 1992 survey said they support the practice. According to the academy, effective discipline has three key components: first, a loving, supportive relationship between parent and child; second, use of positive reinforcement when children behave well; and third, use of punishment when children misbehave. Many parents these days are fearful of using spanking as punishment, either because of the law or because they fear it teaches violence to their kids. Some



Cited: Dobson, James. "CORPORAL PUNISHMENT OF CHILDREN (SPANKING): The Pro-spanking Position." ReligiousTolerance.org by the Ontario Consultants on Religious Tolerance. 1996. Web. 15 Feb. 2011. . Leman, Kevin, Randy Carlson. "When a Child Is Old Enough to Be Spanked and How Should It Be Done?" Christian Answers® Network™ (ChristianAnswers.Net): Multilingual Answers, Reviews, Ministry Resources, and More! [Home]. 1996. Web. 15 Feb. 2011. . Child-Discipline

You May Also Find These Documents Helpful

  • Good Essays

    Spanking can in effect be a form of abuse. Children should only be spanked with your hand, belt, paddle, or similar item. Opponents of spanking state that spanking is done out of anger and that the kids never learn a lesson from spanking. Opponents argue "that spanking sends the message to kids that it is ok for a person to strike a smaller person" (Andero and Stewart). There is some truth to this message. When a parent spanks their child out of anger or frustration then it does send the wrong message to the child.…

    • 698 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Pros And Cons Of Spanking

    • 1174 Words
    • 5 Pages

    Spanking is the act of smacking the buttocks of a child with an opened hand. Some parents adopt this form of corporal punishment as a back up to non-physical discipline. The law should not ban the act of spanking a child in parenting because it is not a form of abuse. Parents should be free to spank their children appropriately, at the right time and for the right reasons, to create an understanding for what is acceptable and what is not. Definitely, spanking is an effective parenting tool.…

    • 1174 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    “According to a Harris poll conducted in 2013, four in five Americans believe that it is sometimes appropriate for parents to spank their kids.” There is a difference between spanking to teach a lesson, and spanking just because. In a study examining 20,000 kindergartners and their parents, researchers found that 80 percent of Hispanic parents admitted to spanking their children. Parents should only spank their children to discipline them, to teach them what is wrong. There should be limitations of course. One of the limitations should be with younger children one should only use one's hand, and the spanking should never leave any marks beyond redness of the skin. Another limitation would be the age you spank your child; it should not be when…

    • 786 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Spanking Children

    • 2666 Words
    • 11 Pages

    Is corporal punishment an effective way of disciplining children? Corporal punishment is a violation inflicted on children, teachers, and others in names of “discipline” which is experienced by a large majority of children in many states worldwide. In the United States, there are laws protecting children from physical abuse, including at school and home; nevertheless, most American parents think spanking is an appropriate method of discipline for children. There are some countries that have passed anti-spanking laws such as Germany, Sweden, and others, but other countries do not have any support against spanking. Spanking children can leave physical scars, affect mental problems, and be ineffective in that children do not understand which is…

    • 2666 Words
    • 11 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Better Essays

    Pros and Cons of Spanking

    • 1006 Words
    • 5 Pages

    Some will agree that there is nothing wrong with spanking a child, but some argue that it is wrong. There have been countless arguments over it leading to extreme aggression or emotional troubles. From a psychological stand point there are a few ways to look at it. In modern psychology there are three concepts of learning. None have been proven any more plausible than the others, so taking a look at each one seems to be the best idea.…

    • 1006 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Better Essays
  • Good Essays

    Spanking is a form of corporal punishment that is commonly used to discipline children all around the world. This form of punishment typically consists of an adult striking the child’s bottom or hand as a reaction to unwanted behavior. There are many arguments that are made on whether a child should be spanked or not, many people tend to believe it’s fair while other believe it’s simply wrong. Those who do not believe in spanking say spanking is a form of child abuse. That it shows children the idea of violence at a young age. So the question is whether spanking will cause the child to be a violent individual, if spanking will harm children mentally and physically, and if it’s a harm to their health and development later on in life.…

    • 1142 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Spanking Children

    • 571 Words
    • 3 Pages

    Parents have spanked their children for quite some time; for thousands of years, at least. Until the New Parenting revolution of the late sixties /early seventies swept common sense from child rearing, most parents spanked. In 1965, spanking was alive and well. Some children were not spanked much, but they contend that each one was memorable. It has not been proven that being spanked improves a child’s behavior but some believe it does. Some individuals have become violent individuals from the spankings they received as children. There are also some who received spankings but have become non-violent individuals are very respectable members of society. When a child was spanked, they did not go out of the house looking for some smaller child to “whoop”, as phrased in the South. The worst consequence of being spanked is that the child came to loathe a parent (There is no guarantee this feeling would not have occurred regardless of being spanked).…

    • 571 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Spanking: Pros and Cons

    • 939 Words
    • 3 Pages

    While many adults would argue that hitting people is wrong, spanking children continues to be used as an acceptable form of discipline because many parents think spanking will teach children not to do things that are forbidden, stop them quickly when they are being irritating, and encourage them to do what they should. Some parents also believe that the nonphysical forms of discipline, like time-out, do not work. Spanking is also a practice used more in some areas of the country than others, primarily in the southern United States, and in some cultures more than others.…

    • 939 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Why Spanking Children is Wrong Parents have been spanking their children for hundreds of years, but recently this practice has come into question. The concern is not regarding the effectiveness of spanking but the correctness of spanking. Parents should not be allowed to strike their children. Child abuse is defined as any unnecessary or intentional physical or emotional or sexual mistreatment of children. Spanking is not the only method of child discipline. Spanking is not even the most effective method of child discipline. Numerous studies have made it evident that spanking does have a negative effect on children. Spanking children should be considered child abuse because it teaches children the wrong message about hitting, it does not teach a child to act out of conscience, but out of fear, it hurts the parent-child relationship, and there are other more effective forms of child discipline. The combination of these factors plays a large role in the inappropriateness of spanking as a form of discipline. If spanking is not the best form of discipline then it is unnecessarily causing physical and mental harm to a child, thus constituting child abuse.…

    • 1441 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Better Essays

    It is no doubt that parenting especially has become even more of a challenge. Reflective of modern society, the changes are evident that in the last several decades the behaviors, mentalities, and ethics of this new generation have not been for the better. For this reason in addition a few others, I still believe that spanking is an acceptable form of discipline as long as you always explain why and how many spanks to the child. As I explain my view and supporting evidence on this controversial, nearly outlawed practice, as well as a few of the opposing views. For parents who are on top of their child-rearing knowledge, there are several wellknown psychologists connected to the issue of spanking. In support of appropriate spanking, Robert Larzelere, Ph. D., is a psychologist who has been researching the affects of spanking for over 25 years. He has turned the heads of many with his dedicated research particularly when a couple of cynics recognized his hard work by stating “given a relatively 'healthy ' family life in a supportive environment, spanking in and of itself is not detrimental to a child or predictive of later problems” (Rosellini and Mulrine, 1998). Another psychologist known to many is John Rosemond, psychologist and author of the book To spank or not to spank. An interesting fact is that John Rosemond is a 1971 graduate of Western Illinois University with a Master’s degree in psychology. Western Illinois University is 40 miles from my hometown. Nonetheless, the American Academy of Pediatrics discourages spanking heavily although many pediatricians themselves spank their own children (Mahoney, 2005). I personally support appropriate spanking for many reasons. Many of my reasons surround my personal beliefs and my upbringing, which include the ever-continuing decline of society, religious/spiritual guidance, structure, and the individual child to name some. Both my…

    • 1067 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Better Essays
  • Good Essays

    Slap, bang, crack! There goes another spanking. Maybe you think that spanking helps prevent bad and misbehavior from children, but did you think about how it doesn’t help them? Spanking should be illegal in the united states. There are people/guardians that abuse the children everyday because they take it too far. Spanking should not be provided in the united states because of the incidences that are provided here.…

    • 475 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Better Essays

    Should Kids Get Spanked?

    • 1714 Words
    • 7 Pages

    There have been many debates on spanking and corporal punishment over recent years. There are two sides to any argument. On one side are some parents, who believe that it is acceptable to spank their children, and on the other side, there are those who believe that children should never be spanked. The main problem with spanking is that each group defines spanking differently. There are some who believe spanking is a form of abuse, while others think of it as discipline. I believe that spankings are a form of discipline, and not abuse.…

    • 1714 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Better Essays
  • Good Essays

    Spanking Children

    • 778 Words
    • 4 Pages

    Now that you have heard the long term effects of abusive spanking or you may call it “corporal punishment” let me move on to the more immediate effects of spanking children. Everyone knows a quick spank o a child’s bottom or a slap to their hand is a quick way to stop a child’s disobedient behavior . But is it real effective? The answer is no . o may have stopped or put an end to one tantrum but in the future its just going to get worse. Heres why. A child who feels right acts right. A child who s hit feels wrong and this effects his behavior . The more he misbehaves the more he is spanked and the worse h feels and as a result he cycle continues. Spanking immediately stops the misbehavior but it is more important for a child to crreat and understanding internally so that he will not want to repeat such misbehavior. After spanking, a child is so caught up in the perceived injust treatment that they forget why they were spanked. It is shown a more effective way to discipline a child is a…

    • 778 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Spanking is considered as a punishment, but also a form of child abuse. Such as spanking, a child can not only cause them to be abusive and suicidal, but also fall into extreme depression because of it. According to an article by Parents.com , “ Spanking isn't considered abuse as long as it is…

    • 862 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    The topic of spanking children as punishment has caused serious controversy dating back to as late as the early 1960s. This topic not only brings out the statistical points but the ethical and moral points as well. Spanking kids as physical punishment is wrong for all ages because it can not only have psychological damage but intellectual damage as well.…

    • 503 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays