The changes in society's attitudes to love, sex and marriage in the last few decades requires one to look at the Christian idea of marriage, and to see if the Bible's teaching can still hold power. One fundamental question that must be revisited concerns what it actually is that constitutes a marriage. Should it be defined as a sexual union, or as a covenant? If it is a sexual union, does sex carry responsibilities, even if no covenant has been made? If it is a covenant, what period does it cover? Is it for life? Does it cover life leading up to it, as well as life after it is made?…
What factors bind marriages and families together? How have these factors changed, and how has the divorce rate been affected?…
The concept of marriage between a man and women, by thought, promotes the perception of a solidified place in society. But the idea of marriage may have lost its true meaning long ago. While society dictates that married couples are more successful in life, be it through media, advertisement, or establishments, it fails to show that in this modern day and age, marriage is not as intimate as it once was. One can say marriage is now viewed as a convenience partnership.…
Before I was born my mother and father were married to each other for a year, and then came sister and them 2 years later I was born. My mother and father never told me that they were married I took it on my own and knew that they was. They were two young adult you fell in love with each other and they wanted to spend the rest of their live together. They had a very normal wedding, what they could afford at the time; most of the family attends the wedding giving present to the new bride and groom. When they were married the preacher said I now pronounce you man and wife. The preacher was…
Polygamy means a system of marriage where one person has more than one spouse. There are two basic forms of polygamy: polyandry, where one woman has more than one husband, and polygyny, where one man has more than one wife (Merriam Webster dictionary). Over the course of history and at present, polygyny is by far the most common form of polygamy, though there have been some documented reports of the practice of polyandry in isolated societies (Al-Krenaw, 1995). Polygyny appears to be the only type of polygamy practiced in North America. While Polygyny is practiced in several societies in the world it is most common in Middle Eastern and African nations, where cultural and religious background continue to encourage its practice (Agadjanian, 2000). There has been growing concern and controversy about polygamy around the world. In many countries where polygamy has traditionally been practiced, there has been increasing encouragement for the restraint of polygamy to protect women from abuse and support gender equality. In the United States, there is increasing concern about the practice of polygamy and other abuses of women and children in fundamentalist communities (Altman & Ginat, 1996). Furthermore, these communities are composed of Christian, Jewish and Muslim believers.…
Marriage is the ceremonial binding of two people, male and female, into one couple. Historically, marriage has been the institution when a man and a woman join together with the promise of love, devotion, to always stay together, to be there for each other, to take care of one another and to start a family together. Biblically, marriage has been all the aspects above, but including honoring, loving and growing closer to God and raising their family in ways that the Lord would have them, by abiding to the Word of God. Now days the traditional view of marriage is being changed by gay and lesbian couples demanding the same right to love, honor and cherish each other. This argumentative essay on gay marriage will explore both sides on the debate of gay and lesbian marriages.…
What does marriage in the United States and other countries around the world mean? Debunking has five myths about marriage 1- The Universal Nuclear Family, 2-The Self-Reliant Traditional Family, 3- The Naturalness of Different spheres for Wives and Husbands, 4- The Unstable African American Family, and 5- The Idealized Nuclear family of the 1950’s.…
Marriage is not something to be taken lightly. It is both a bond of love and a commitment to one’s spouse. It is a sacrament therefor it cannot be broken or dissolved. It is eternal and everlasting. It is also an example to other married couples. Married couples are to guide other couples in the formation of their relationship. One can see this, as it says in Humanae Vitae, “It is married couples themselves who become apostles and guides to other married couples.” (HV 20). These couples are to act as witnesses to the truth of the sacrament of marriage and the marital calling. As a witness to this truth they are to demonstrate the equality of human persons in the dignity and respect of…
In every family, it is near to impossible that there would never be any conflict between each other—especially with the parents. There would always come a time that misunderstandings will arise, but what is vital in the end is that they will choose to stay together—through thick and thin, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer.…
People’s interactions of fidelity set the stage for the way in which they deal with infidelity in their relationships. As seen or heard, many women expect their partners to cheat, and most men don’t expect their partners to. These expectations determine subsequent reactions to infidelity. Research has reported that men and women experience their infidelity differently, women describe their infidelity as more emotional, where as men describe their infidelity as more sexual. For example, some individuals may not consider emotional intimacy as a violation of the relationship commitment. Others may disagree about what physical behaviors constitute infidelity, believing that only intercourse confirms infidelity, whereas others hold that behaviors such as kissing constitute a breach of trust and commitment to fidelity. Partners may disagree over the definition of infidelity and thus disagree with whether it has occurred.…
"Can I spend the night with you tonight" the young boy asks the other boy? The response, "No, my dad has me this weekend, maybe next week." We live in a world where over half of the marriages end in divorce. This is truly a confounding issue that faces us today. The moral and ethical ramifications brought about by such a change in family organization will only begin to show in the years to come. Some of these issues are addressed in both Laurie Abraham's "Divorced Father," and Barbara Whitehead's "Women and the Future of Fatherhood."…
Marriage is a legal union between a man and a woman willing and wanting to produce a family. Definition of marriage from the bible states that “Judaism traditionally considers marriage to be the ideal state of personal existence; a man without a wife, or a woman without a husband, is considered incomplete”, whereas divorce is “The dissolution of a marriage contract between a man and a woman, by the judgment of a court of competent jurisdiction. Until a decree of divorce be actually made, neither party can treat the other as sole, even in cases where the marriage is utterly null and void for some preexisting cause. A decree of divorce must also be made during the lifetime of both the parties”.…
I recently read an article about how Christians are to look at sex in marriage. This kind of explains further on the issues that Christians have with the concept of having sex as a wedded couple. It expresses that some Christian’s struggle with having good sex in terms of having a healthy marriage with sex. However what happens often is that one or the other couple has learned to hold on for sex before marriage to have purity when the day comes to marry. What it has been shown is that the couple does not know how to react to the concept of having “good great sex” in the way that it’s actually good to each other. As long as they are pledging to have a strong marriage they have to realize that God did allow them to enjoy pleasure of sex together. For me, this is new of course because I did not know that fact that sex is good in all its creativity when in marriage. I honestly thought it’s only for the purpose to reproduce and after that, Christians should not do too much sex. But after learning this fact that as long as sex is not our God or our idol, then what matters next is to keep hold of the purpose of marriage, which is to honor God and themselves united as one in everything they do. I agree with the statement that, “the purpose of abstinence is good sex,” meaning that kind of sex which is healthy until marriage comes. This is where pleasure in sex like God indented to one another should occur. Also I learned as in class as well, that its not just about having good sex that keeps a “marriage strong”, but that is part of it. I like how sex is formulated to keep it upright Christian context, when the article states, “ultimately, putting sex in its proper place will encourage us to order God’s gifts in the same way that church tradition teaches the ordering of love.” We just have to understand that sex is a way to love on each other as God allowed it to in…
“If I had just listen, I would not be in this trouble, I would not be broke and homeless, I would not have dropped out of high school or college, I would not been pregnant out of wedlock, I would not been expelled out of school, I would not have been fired from my job……… If I had just listen to my momma or if I had just listened to my daddy…………
A believer in the sanctity of life would argue that only God has the right to give or take life as he created all humans imago dei. If someone believed this, they would argue that under no circumstances does anyone have the right to take their life, or let anyone else take their life for them. Natural law accepts the sanctity of life argument, but would also reject euthanasia due to the primary precept (which is absolute therefore cannot be broken under any circumstances) “preserve innocent life”. For instance, even in the case of Dianne Pretty who had motor neuron disease and was facing a painful death, she would not have been allowed to die, despite saying “I want to have a quick death without suffering”. Both the sanctity of life thesis and the primary precepts would stop her being autonomous.…