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The Gift of Fear 1. The Gift of Fear by Gavin De Decker related to our class in the number of ways. Clearly this story showed a breach in Civil Inattention.Civil Inattention is an acknowledgment of others without imposing on them or being noticed (Week 3 Lecture). The young man in the story breached this by committing Stranger Intervention. Stranger Intervention according to Philip W. Davis means exactly how it sounds. Strangers intervene in a situation. Another concept that was greatly seen in this document were Psychological Signals. Psychological signals happen involuntary and these signals happen at a greater rate and force when a male passes or approaches a woman (Carol Brooks Gardner). Lastly the concept of Good Samaritans was something that blinded sighted Kelly. Good Samaritans are people who help out strangers (Week 4 Lecture). …show more content…
The breach of Civil inattention through the Stranger Intervention forced her to put attention on this stranger and try to evaluate the situation. This is where her Psychological signals came in. Kelly couldn't trust this man, but she was puzzled why. She was blinded thinking he was merely a good samaritan. She was trying to ignore her signals and judge by looks. Psychologically she got the signals of mistrust through the time and place this man approached her. After her rape again her psychologically signals came in and she didn’t notice. She knew the young man planned to kill her because he closed the window without thinking about it and she acted on this singals. She allowed her fear to control her and got away

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