The Effects of Open Communication or Bonding
SCHOOL OF TEACHER EDUCATION
General Luna Rd., Baguio City 2600
A research report on “The Effects of Open Communication or Bonding Between Parents and Children”, submitted to Ms. Genevieve C. Tudlong, in partial fulfilment for the subject ENGLED 2: Writing in the Discipline, submitted by Julie Ann Almida, Marcial Kiwas, Micah Polon and Demi Rose Tacay on January 29, 2013.
I. Introduction A. Background B. Significance of the study and presentation of the problem C. Hypothesis
II. Body A. The effects of lack of attachment or lack of bonding 1. Conscience Development 2. Impulse Control. 3. Self-Concept 4. Inter-personal Interactions 5. Emotions 6. Cognitive Problems 7. Developmental Problems
B. Ways on how to build a stronger relationship among family members
1. Keep in Touch
2. Spend Time Together
3. Keep Promises
4. Treat Our Teens Like Teens
5. Be Thoughtful
6. Recognize Special Efforts
7. Tell Them We Care
8. Be Supportive
9. Avoid Hurtful Teasing
10. Use Humor and Lighten Up
11. Appreciate Our Teens’ Special Strengths
12. Involve Our Teens in Setting Boundaries and Making Rules
13. Be Real With Our Teens
C. Outcomes of a good parenting with open communication
Have you ever told your secrets to your parents? What did you feel when you open up? Sometimes we teenagers find it to be “corny” but freely communicating with our parents gives such great relief in ourselves that will make us feel better. We feel comfortable especially when we have their attention and their love. Bonding between families naturally helps in building a stronger relationship that will last in every ups and downs that would come and that only death could end it. It gives a great impact in boosting our self-esteem. Children and teenagers like us should be comfortable to have our communication to our parents about problems that we are experiencing outside the parameters of our home. A total bonding time with the family gives happiness and comfort to everyone.
General Luna Rd., Baguio City 2600
A research report on “The Effects of Open Communication or Bonding Between Parents and Children”, submitted to Ms. Genevieve C. Tudlong, in partial fulfilment for the subject ENGLED 2: Writing in the Discipline, submitted by Julie Ann Almida, Marcial Kiwas, Micah Polon and Demi Rose Tacay on January 29, 2013.
I. Introduction A. Background B. Significance of the study and presentation of the problem C. Hypothesis
II. Body A. The effects of lack of attachment or lack of bonding 1. Conscience Development 2. Impulse Control. 3. Self-Concept 4. Inter-personal Interactions 5. Emotions 6. Cognitive Problems 7. Developmental Problems
B. Ways on how to build a stronger relationship among family members
1. Keep in Touch
2. Spend Time Together
3. Keep Promises
4. Treat Our Teens Like Teens
5. Be Thoughtful
6. Recognize Special Efforts
7. Tell Them We Care
8. Be Supportive
9. Avoid Hurtful Teasing
10. Use Humor and Lighten Up
11. Appreciate Our Teens’ Special Strengths
12. Involve Our Teens in Setting Boundaries and Making Rules
13. Be Real With Our Teens
C. Outcomes of a good parenting with open communication
Have you ever told your secrets to your parents? What did you feel when you open up? Sometimes we teenagers find it to be “corny” but freely communicating with our parents gives such great relief in ourselves that will make us feel better. We feel comfortable especially when we have their attention and their love. Bonding between families naturally helps in building a stronger relationship that will last in every ups and downs that would come and that only death could end it. It gives a great impact in boosting our self-esteem. Children and teenagers like us should be comfortable to have our communication to our parents about problems that we are experiencing outside the parameters of our home. A total bonding time with the family gives happiness and comfort to everyone.
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