The Best Age To Get Married
When will you get married? Most of you in this class are in your twenties and you may think you are not old enough to wear a wedding ring. Of course, there is not fixed age of getting married. However, I think that there is an ideal age of wedding. It is between early and mid-thirties. The reason is that people who are in this age are well-prepared 'superficially' and 'internally'.
Korea has a sort of steps that many people follow. People graduates from school, get a job, and get married in order in their late twenties or early thirties. Actually, the period of getting a job and earning money is 'superficial' preparatory stage for wedding. If people got married upon graduation or they didn't take a job to earn money, they would be in trouble. For instance, they are lack of money to buy a house. If they had a baby, they would be going to end up making this problem worse. The age of getting married also related to one's responsibility for his or her wedding. It is 'internal' preparatory stage. After wedding, they have to raise their own family and make a living by themselves, even if they do not want to do these things. However, some young couples tend to be lack of responsibility and cannot afford to raise not only themselves but also other families. It leads to destroying the stability of their marital life. I think many people can be well-prepared 'superficially' and 'internally' in their early and mid thirties and they can start a better life with someone.
Korea has a sort of steps that many people follow. People graduates from school, get a job, and get married in order in their late twenties or early thirties. Actually, the period of getting a job and earning money is 'superficial' preparatory stage for wedding. If people got married upon graduation or they didn't take a job to earn money, they would be in trouble. For instance, they are lack of money to buy a house. If they had a baby, they would be going to end up making this problem worse. The age of getting married also related to one's responsibility for his or her wedding. It is 'internal' preparatory stage. After wedding, they have to raise their own family and make a living by themselves, even if they do not want to do these things. However, some young couples tend to be lack of responsibility and cannot afford to raise not only themselves but also other families. It leads to destroying the stability of their marital life. I think many people can be well-prepared 'superficially' and 'internally' in their early and mid thirties and they can start a better life with someone.