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“Tiger parent”, this term was appeared in recent year. This term represent the parent who are strict and demanding to push their children to gain a high achievement. Besides, the education attitude of some parent towards children were also too strict. The meaning of high achievement, in my point of view is that the strict parent want their children to perform well not only in the academic field but also the non-academic field. For example children need to be the best in school and to become winner in every match. Some people state that this attitude of strict parent can lead children to have a better future. I am not agree at all, I think this type of parent will lead the children to have a bad future.
I will explain with two reason which are behavior problem and level of reliability on the parents.
Dr. Laura Markham, a clinical psychologist and author of “Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids,” stated that strict parenting can actually create behavior problem to children. The strict parent deprives the learning opportunity of child. It causes children miss a chance to learn something new. But this is not the important point, the most important is that when the children miss those learning opportunities, they may not know how to take care themselves. Self-care is a very important issue to every children. This skill is one of the survival skill for them when they grow in the future and step in the society. Due to the reality will not treat you like their parent. The reality is harsh and people need to be careful other people. Besides, if the strict parent use the punitive discipline. The teen is also more likely to be rebellious, angry or depressed, become overweight or become an excellent liar. All these consequence may enhance teenagers to build up a bad personality. With a bad personality will also affect their future. In other words, it will lead teens to have worse future. Due to bad personality may mean that teens have
“Tiger parent”, this term was appeared in recent year. This term represent the parent who are strict and demanding to push their children to gain a high achievement. Besides, the education attitude of some parent towards children were also too strict. The meaning of high achievement, in my point of view is that the strict parent want their children to perform well not only in the academic field but also the non-academic field. For example children need to be the best in school and to become winner in every match. Some people state that this attitude of strict parent can lead children to have a better future. I am not agree at all, I think this type of parent will lead the children to have a bad future.
I will explain with two reason which are behavior problem and level of reliability on the parents.
Dr. Laura Markham, a clinical psychologist and author of “Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids,” stated that strict parenting can actually create behavior problem to children. The strict parent deprives the learning opportunity of child. It causes children miss a chance to learn something new. But this is not the important point, the most important is that when the children miss those learning opportunities, they may not know how to take care themselves. Self-care is a very important issue to every children. This skill is one of the survival skill for them when they grow in the future and step in the society. Due to the reality will not treat you like their parent. The reality is harsh and people need to be careful other people. Besides, if the strict parent use the punitive discipline. The teen is also more likely to be rebellious, angry or depressed, become overweight or become an excellent liar. All these consequence may enhance teenagers to build up a bad personality. With a bad personality will also affect their future. In other words, it will lead teens to have worse future. Due to bad personality may mean that teens have