physical and nonviolent punishment
Topic: Physical punishment “work” in the sense that it may stop a child from misbehaving, but adults who frequently spank & hit are also teaching children that violence is a good method of accomplishing a goal. Nonviolent methods are more effective way of training children. Agree or disagree?
Nowadays, there are a lot of television news about violent toward children to teach them. Moreover, news bad behaviors of teenagers are trending to younger and younger appears frequently. Some people still think that training children by physical punishment is very normal and make their children well-behaved. Personally I strongly object parents admire physical punishment. This method is easy to leave the scars on both children’s body and heart, on the other hand, it troubles thinking and effects psychology of them.
It is said that physical punishment is a traditional conception “spare the rod and spoil the child”. They acclaim this method is the best quick method to stop children’s misbehaviors. They think it was used for a long time, so it must have been effect. However, using this method leaves the scars not only child’s body but also their heart. Even though body’s hurt disappeared, there is still a pain in their heart for the entire life. In addition, it is easy to see that using this method make them become conservative persons whom did not want to accept new method- nonviolence.
Secondly, some people think that physical punishment make children remember and do not repeat their offence again, so their children will be well-behaved. Actually, it makes the children have trouble with their thinking about misbehaviors. In real life, there a lots pairs of parent who are ready hitting or spanking their children without tell them what they are wrong. Because of that, these kids only know it is wrong but do not know why it is wrong. Then, their mistakes will be repeated and repeated again.
Finally, other may argue that children are always scared hitting or spanking since
Nowadays, there are a lot of television news about violent toward children to teach them. Moreover, news bad behaviors of teenagers are trending to younger and younger appears frequently. Some people still think that training children by physical punishment is very normal and make their children well-behaved. Personally I strongly object parents admire physical punishment. This method is easy to leave the scars on both children’s body and heart, on the other hand, it troubles thinking and effects psychology of them.
It is said that physical punishment is a traditional conception “spare the rod and spoil the child”. They acclaim this method is the best quick method to stop children’s misbehaviors. They think it was used for a long time, so it must have been effect. However, using this method leaves the scars not only child’s body but also their heart. Even though body’s hurt disappeared, there is still a pain in their heart for the entire life. In addition, it is easy to see that using this method make them become conservative persons whom did not want to accept new method- nonviolence.
Secondly, some people think that physical punishment make children remember and do not repeat their offence again, so their children will be well-behaved. Actually, it makes the children have trouble with their thinking about misbehaviors. In real life, there a lots pairs of parent who are ready hitting or spanking their children without tell them what they are wrong. Because of that, these kids only know it is wrong but do not know why it is wrong. Then, their mistakes will be repeated and repeated again.
Finally, other may argue that children are always scared hitting or spanking since