Mother reflection
Man I love my little girl so much ! I wonder sometimes if I'm doing all the right things you really have to stop sometimes and look at what your doing as a parent . Am I giving enough attention am I giving enough love . I think generally if you think there is a lack of something to much of something or nothing at all . That's just it ? If you think it then there is some truth to it ! The mothers instinct is that strong it's usually right . So let's see this is the answers to my questions -
Am I giving her enough love ?
Yes I show her and tell her all the time ! Cuddles tickles kisses - though you can never get to much love and I thin no should tell her and show her more . Show her what love is !! Showing how to express my love in creative ways is something I'll learn .
Do I make her enough food ? Healthy foods .
Big no
I really must make more healthy food and prepare cut up fruit /make muffins /freeze her patties ect .
Do I spend enough time with her ? Quality time !?
No I should take her to parks and walks more often ! I should take her to the museum - farms - pools . She loves it !!
Do I do crafts ect .
No not as much as I would like ??
Need to make a timetable and make days for crafts and library and pools ect !
Buy more craft stuff
Glues / paints / scrap books ect
Find more stuff to do crafty
Do I read to her enough ?
No we need to read at least 3 books a day and education ones
Do I teach her enough words numbers ect ?
No she needs to learn more . She is learning fast but needs more stimulation and understanding of education .
Do I discipline her right?
I do at times but probably let things go to much and yell to much no more yelling or smacking
Do Bub and I argue to much?
Yes !! No more
Do I listen to her ? Yes very attentive to her and what she is saying always !
Do I take her to family much ?
No more outings with nanna boo
Mum
Aunties ect
Do I take her to fun places ?
Does Bub do enough with her ?
Hmm
Am I giving her enough love ?
Yes I show her and tell her all the time ! Cuddles tickles kisses - though you can never get to much love and I thin no should tell her and show her more . Show her what love is !! Showing how to express my love in creative ways is something I'll learn .
Do I make her enough food ? Healthy foods .
Big no
I really must make more healthy food and prepare cut up fruit /make muffins /freeze her patties ect .
Do I spend enough time with her ? Quality time !?
No I should take her to parks and walks more often ! I should take her to the museum - farms - pools . She loves it !!
Do I do crafts ect .
No not as much as I would like ??
Need to make a timetable and make days for crafts and library and pools ect !
Buy more craft stuff
Glues / paints / scrap books ect
Find more stuff to do crafty
Do I read to her enough ?
No we need to read at least 3 books a day and education ones
Do I teach her enough words numbers ect ?
No she needs to learn more . She is learning fast but needs more stimulation and understanding of education .
Do I discipline her right?
I do at times but probably let things go to much and yell to much no more yelling or smacking
Do Bub and I argue to much?
Yes !! No more
Do I listen to her ? Yes very attentive to her and what she is saying always !
Do I take her to family much ?
No more outings with nanna boo
Mum
Aunties ect
Do I take her to fun places ?
Does Bub do enough with her ?
Hmm