While the legal definition varies within the United States, marital rape can be defined as any unwanted intercourse or penetration (vaginal, anal, or oral) obtained by force, threat of force, or when the wife is unable to consent (Bergen, 1996).
Marital rape is a touchy issue. It is one that bears a lasting impact on the woman, both physically and psychologically; yet it is still an issue that has not been given the adequate attention it deserves as compared to rape by a stranger. Socially, marital rape is a term that few are able to accept and understand. Many still hold the view that once the bond of marriage has been entered, it is the woman 's duty to satisfy her husband. Researchers estimate that 10% and 14% of married women experience rape in marriage (www.vawnet.org/domesticviolence/research). It should be noted that most statistical data come from women who were in battered women 's shelters at the time of collection. There seems to be a stigma of reporting rape in marriage. There is a tendency to blame yourself for the act. This is one reason for underreporting. Marital rape is different from stranger rape because it betrays the fundamental basis of the marital relationship
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