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Trevor’s wife has just bought a new dress for a party, and tries it on to show him. He hates the colour and style, and thinks it makes her look awful, but he doesn’t want to upset her so he tells her she looks great.
James is walking back from school when he sees his classmate Kyle looking terrified and being chased by a group of older lads. He sees Kyle hide behind a nearby bush, but when the group of boys asks James if he has seen Kyle, he says he hasn’t.
Mrs Miller is desperate to get her son into the local Catholic High School, as it has much better results than others in the area. Even though she and her family aren’t really religious and hardly ever go to church, she fills in the school application form claiming they are devout Catholics and have been for years.
Janie advertises her services as a psychic and medium – her customers pay good money to have their fortunes read and contact dead relatives through her. The truth is, Janie has never really been psychic and can’t actually contact the dead; she is just good at convincing people otherwise.
Katie and her younger brother Jonathan are watching TV in the living room. Katie accidentally knocks over a glass of blackcurrant juice which leaves a big stain on their mum’s new sofa. Katie knows she’s not supposed to have drinks whilst on the sofa, and doesn’t want to get into trouble, so she tells her mum her brother did it. Jonathan gets grounded for a week.
James is married with three children. Whilst away in London on a business trip, he gets talking to a female colleague who he has fancied for ages. They go out for drinks and a meal that night, and James never mentions the fact that he has a wife and family. He doesn’t see anything wrong with it – after all, he hasn’t actually told her anything that isn’t true.
Tom is a nurse at the local care home, and is scheduled to work the morning shift on January 1st. However on New Year’s Eve he had a big night out with friends and didn’t get in until 5am, and he

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