First, through characterization, the author follows the young girl, which struggles to understand her mother selfishness. Before meeting her mom, the protagonist explains she will be “unable to throw [herself] into her arms” (228). However, even though she imagines it, the opposite situation happens and she actually finds herself “unable to wait and rushe[s] forward” (228) to see her mother. Additionally, through this first person narrative point of view, the reader even acknowledges her distinct feelings. However, these contradicting emotions of love and withdrawal, as an ironic reversal, left her perplex and confusion is conveyed over this situation. Also, the young girls describes the moment her “father agreed to divorce” (228) her mother, which had at this particular moment, a distinctive smile covering her face. Through this discovery, the reader learns about the conflict the narrator is living, and also the emotions her mother experiences at this moment. The smile on the mother face implies that she is somewhat happy with the…
One night, as I was trying to sleep, thinking about my life, I suddenly became filled with fear. I was convinced I would screw up my life —that all my fear of being like her was tarnishing my relationship life. Strangely, while panicking about my life becoming a doom, my mother came to mind. I sat there…
A mother is such a complex figure to think about. Mothers are expected to be loving, caring, sweet, but also firm and disciplinary. As seen around the world, mothers share different values and beliefs on raising their children. Many believe that the way a mother cares for her child molds the child into a certain adult. In ways, mothers have a power over their children that, as kids, are hard for our brains to grasp. In the article, The Estrangement, written by Jamaica Kincaid, thoughts on her mother are revealed and accessible to analyze. She shares her story about her mother/daughter relationship and throughout her story, The Estrangement, shows an underlining argument of the reality of the biased views children have towards their mothers.…
‘Postcard’ is a poem by Skrzynecki about the arrival of a postcard for his parents. As Skrzynecki’s culture is different from his parents, as he is Australian and they are Polish, this poem represents an emotional journey and a promised physical journey to come. The title ‘Postcard’ is a connotation as the readers first thoughts of a postcard as being an insignificant event, however this is juxtaposed by the intense emotional journey that can be brought about by something small and seemingly unimportant shown throughout the entire poem.…
Mothers are very important to every living person on this earth. They nurture, educate, and enthrall pupils from birth well into their adult life. According to many psychologists, women are born with nurturing tendencies that are used throughout the rest of our lives. Regardless of monetary and social status, a mother is someone caring and loving. In both ROOM and The Glass Castle, the mothers are nurturing and loving regardless of both above statuses. They also share resilience, creativity, and a dependency on others that can be at times overwhelming.…
The older I grow, the more I realize that my mother has always done so much for me. Her love was patient and forgiving in times when I pushed her to her limits as a child. I love my mother, Hester, with all my heart. I remember as a child, being fascinated with the letter A on her bosom. When I was young I was confused about the situation between my parents. I lashed out in anger towards my mother my throwing prickly burrs at her bosom. In doing so, I added to her already thriving pain and guilt. As I grew up and moved away, my mother decided to continue to live in her tiny cottage in Massachusetts. I sent her gifts from England so she can live in luxury as well. I loved her, and she knew she would always be welcome to come live with me in England at any point throughout her life.…
her mother (narrator) saw her. Through her reverie, we feel the mother's pain that her…
When she sees this, she fears it may be bad news about her son. It shows that the woman is sad, crying and panicking as she hurries to open the letter. She catches the main words of it only. Her son has been shot. She panics and is saddened.…
A similarity between “Baby Love” by Kathy Stinson and “Mothership Down” by Marty Chan is both characters have trouble communicating with their parents, this is why the plot developed the way it did and where the main conflict started. In the text it says “And she wished her mom was there. She should have said yes when her mom called earlier and offered to come home.” The narrator said this when Chelsea (the main character) realized that she needed the help that her mother persistently offered, but Chelsea was dead set against needing the help of her mother. In Chelsea’s mind her mother wasn’t trying to help, she was trying to take over the role of Abigail’s (Chelsea’s baby) mother. A similar event happens in the story “Mothership Down” by Marty Chan. It has been 3 long years since the main character in this text has spoken to his father all over a silly little miscommunication. The main character decides to call home and check in on…
I am reading Counting By 7's by Holly Goldberg Sloan. In this novel we are introduced to a highly intelligent girl named Willow Chance, who lives in Bakersfield with her adoptive parents. She was always considered "gifted" from the beginning. She is about to start in a new school and hopes to make friends and "fit in". Willow takes her Standardized Test but is accused of cheating because she completed the test in only 17 minutes.…
Lying on her deathbed , she contemplates that “She had spent so much time preparing for death there was no need for bringing it up again”(2). Even when approached with death she felt like she had to be in control of even the littlest thoughts. Her extreme propensity to control presents a psychological dependency; her urge to control may stem from the loss of her loved ones such as her husband John, her fiancé George, and her child Hapsy. The point of view changes occasionally switches to first person to emphasize the focus on Granny Weatherall’s desires and thoughts at specified time; for example in the middle of a description of George’s abandonment the author adds in, “No, I swear he never harmed me but in that.”(3). Because this information is directly from Granny’s perspective, it demonstrates her deepest thoughts: her need to convince herself that she is not hurt by the abandonment. She tries to suppress the unpleasant pain of the sudden abandonment in order to move on. Because she could not control the jilting by her fiancé, she instead tries to control her emotions not allowing herself to be hurt. To compensate for the unexpected…
The woman then tells the reader that she has a journal that she has kept secret from her husband. She talks about how the yellow wallpaper and how she finds it “revolting”. The fact that she has to keep this secret journal just shows that she is afraid of her husband, and that she has to keep secrets from him. Her husband has taken her freedom away from her by keeping her in the secluded room by driving her to believe that she is depressed and or psychotic.…
She is a very imaginative person. She believes that her house is haunted and terrors herself with nightmares about big scary monsters. She turns her imagination on to neutral objects like the house and wallpaper so she can somewhat ignore her frustration. The narrator becomes very focused on the wallpaper in her house. She later identifies herself as the lady trapped in the wallpaper. She’s able to see that other women are forced to hide behind domestic patterns of their lives when she is the one who truly needs to be rescued. In the end, she is “free’ of the constraints of her marriage, society, and her own efforts of her…
In the story Mi Mommy by Gilb, the author explains his rough relationship he had with his mother. He started by explaining a dream he had of his mother. As the reader I noticed even though he didn’t talk to her, and did not approve of her life, he still loved her. After finding out his mother was a career alcoholic, I found it hard to believe he cared for her as much as he did. Gilb explains how his mom didn't really support his and how she wasn’t involved in his adult life.…
Family relationship is important in making every member feel safe, protected and loved. A strong relationship helps enhance a families trust and unity with the bond between a parent and a child that holds a special relationship with each other. Through the reading of Sharon Olds’ poem “My Son the Man”, a mother is witnessing her son growing up into a man. Olds explores her sadness on how her son matures, while also realizing he is able to escape from her tight grasp. Olds examinants how her son grows from a little boy to a man, how she has to get ready to let him go, and how he finally has freedom.…