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Letter To An Alcoholic Parent
Not every child gets the chance to live with their grandparents. At the age of nine in the middle of third grade, I was given that chance. It was not my parents who gave me support, love, and a chance to be me. My life if not for my grandparents would be a mess and just like my mothers. Children are the world’s future and that is why they need to be saved and taught about life and dreams. I wrote a letter to my grandparents crying in a hidden spot explaining with all my heart why they needed to take me in. I finally convinced them to take me after years of asking with that letter that made them cry. Before they took me in I was a victim of abuse from a drug addict as well as an alcoholic father. I was a victim of neglect from my mother

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