Preview

Kramer vs. Kramer

Better Essays
Open Document
Open Document
1144 Words
Grammar
Grammar
Plagiarism
Plagiarism
Writing
Writing
Score
Score
Kramer vs. Kramer
Any parents thinking of divorce should be court-ordered to watch "Kramer vs. Kramer." If there is even a slight chance of compromise after seeing it, they will stay together rather than inflict their separation upon their children.
Everyone should see Kramer vs. Kramer, including parents and children of broken families. I first viewed the movie only a short time ago and I was blown away at how pertinent it still is to today’s culture. This is an account of a man who falls in love with his son, more than a film about divorce. He begins to understand that their relationship is the only thing that holds any value in his life. By delighting in being a father, he becomes more than just the breadwinner. Dustin Hoffman and Justin Henry are fantastic together as two guys trying to deal with a life without their wife and mother. The journey of their relationship is the foundation of the film and will be sure to make you emotional.
Set in Manhattan's Upper East Side, the movie begins with flourishing advertising expert Ted Kramer (Dustin Hoffman) just having experienced a predominantly exhilarating day at the office. Everything in his life is working out as planned, and as he says a few minutes later, “This has been one of the five best days of my life.” When he returns home, he’s so elated about his wonderful news he doesn’t notice his wife Joanna (Meryl Streep), firm-jawed and teary-eyed, has a bag packed and ready by the door. She then interrupts him, destroying his celebration with news of her own: She’s leaving for good, with no intention of returning. She has lost herself somewhere inside their monotonous, bland marriage, leaving her with no other way to end her pain. She is not only leaving Ted to fend for himself and come home to an empty apartment, but she is also leaving their six-year-old son Billy (Justin Henry) behind. Ted is beyond angry; he is infuriated. How can she take away one of the five best days of his life? She can't walk out when

You May Also Find These Documents Helpful

  • Good Essays

    Divorce is not as harmful to families in, particular children, as the norm would argue.…

    • 1771 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    Movie: On Golden Pond

    • 270 Words
    • 2 Pages

    I would have to admit that this was my first time ever hearing of this movie until this assignment but once I saw it I absolutely fell in love with all the characters and the different dynamics of family. It begins with Norman and Ethel Thayer moving back to their lake house in Maine for the summer. Norman and Ethel have been married a long time and will be celebrating Norman’s eightieth birthday and welcoming back their daughter Chelsea and she brings along her boyfriend Billy Ray and his teenage son Billy Ray Jr. Chelsea asked her parents can Billy jr stay with them while her and Billy go to Europe. When Billy and Chelsea return form Europe she discovers that her dad and Billy have the relationship that she always wanted and decided to confront him and deal with her emotions.…

    • 270 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Good Essays

    Family Movie

    • 876 Words
    • 4 Pages

    It is a glimpse into how differently a father would raise his children if given a chance to do so without interference or boundaries. It reminds us that once parents learn to listen to each other instead of fighting with each other during divorce proceedings they will finally come around to doing what is best for their children. The movie introduces the viewers to the changing dynamic of the American family. Mothers are no longer stay at home moms who simply tend to children and cook meals. These days women like Miranda Hillard (Sally Field) are career driven heads of industries. It is also not uncommon these days to find a stay at home dad like Daniel Hillard (Robin Williams). The problem with this situation is that even though mothers bring home the bacon, they are still expected to come home and perform their wifely and motherly duties. Something that society has not once, throughout the history or marriages expected from the husband and father. Such a situation indeed takes its toll on any marriage and weakens the foundation of the…

    • 876 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    becomes more difficult. Should married couple try to work out their problems for the sake of their children? Should they work things out for the sake of their marriage? Conflict between parents is usually present when divorce is considered. Does this effect children in a negative way? Is it better to end the marriage or subject the children to arguing and negative feelings between parents? Should couples stay together even when miserable? Some think that there are mixed results to these questions.…

    • 634 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Good Essays

    Kramer V Kramer

    • 547 Words
    • 3 Pages

    In the beginning of the movie, Billy was primarily raised by his mother while his father, Ted, was apathetic towards the raising of his child. Not even aware of Billy’s grade level, Ted was seen as a workaholic with an overall permissive parenting style. He was always subject to Billy’s desires, had little punishment, and also little bonding time with Billy. For example, Ted was working on a project for work and Billy, being a kid, wanted him to play with him. Instead of spending time with his son, he chose to send Billy to the corner of a room to play with himself. Soon because of the neglect of his father, the boy almost became withdrawn from their relationship. Once the mother leaves the house, Ted’s parenting turns for the better. He soon begins to bond with Billy and create a concrete relationship. Though it was not a quick process, in the end, Ted’s parenting style had improved immensely. He began to become an authoritative parent both demanding from Billy, but also responding. He explains and reasons for the rules in which he sets for Billy and also encourages Billy to converse with him. Examples from the movies would be the times where Ted tucks Billy into bed and reads him stories, or where even Ted explains to him the difficult understanding of his wife and his relationship to Billy in simple terms. The love and bond in which they both grew in their relationship could not be broken.…

    • 547 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Best Essays

    According to recent studies, over one million children in the United States will experience the divorce of their parents this year. Divorce for children, at least for the first two years, can shatter a child 's universe setting him or her adrift on an ocean of uncertainty and distress. They wonder if they will see the absent parent again? Will they see their friends again? Some children are also in danger of developing emotional problems that have consequences that go well beyond their adolescence and into their…

    • 2247 Words
    • 9 Pages
    Best Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    Ending a relationship and deciding upon a divorce can be very traumatic. After a divorce, children can experience a lot of anger…

    • 373 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Good Essays

    Although, divorce can be hard for adults too. Waiting to get a divorce until your kids grow up doesn’t make things easier (The Huffington Post). It still hurts to see your parents fall out of love. There was a study conducted on the effect of divorce and the years to come. The researcher assumed that after so many years the children, now adults, would come to rest about the whole matter. Instead, the research showed that even 25 years after witnessing the divorce, the adults were still fearing failure, loss, and change (Focus on the…

    • 616 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Powerful Essays

    Divorce is usually not a word many people like to hear, because it means the dissolving of a marriage. “Divorce isn't any old crisis. It's not a tornado. It's not a death in the family. It's a very specific crisis of the breakdown of the relationship between the main man and the main woman in the child's life”,(“Mediated Divorce Is Best for Children”). A child's life can be made better or it can be made worst with a divorce. It could help their future life from leaving a horrible family life or distorting the future relationships the child may one day have. From the child's point of view their parents failed to keep things together. She failed to keep the husband and he failed to keep the wife. Proponents argue that a divorce can have positive…

    • 1512 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Powerful Essays
  • Good Essays

    Having a divorce can help stop an abusive marriage and it’ll make both partners happier than before if stuck in an unpleasant marriage. However, it doesn’t necessarily mean divorces are a good thing. A young child involved in the divorce might feel like they have to choose a side or can even feel like they’re the reason for the divorce. This can really affect the child as he / she grows into their teenage years. Being a teenager is already hard enough, now you have to deal with your parents, two of the most important people in your life, breaking up. Imagine how overwhelming that must be. Moreover, divorces break the bond of trust and relationship between the parents and the kid. Children have been grown thinking that there is only one right family relationship, and that is Mom and Dad being together. “Any other relationship configuration presents a conflict or betrayal of their basic understanding of life” ( Amy Desai ).…

    • 494 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Best Essays

    Child Custody Evaluation

    • 2364 Words
    • 10 Pages

    Each year about 1.2 million marriages end in divorce, and many divorcing couples have children (Patel&Jones, 2008). In the year 2006 more than 1.1 million children were living with a parent who was divorced or separated. Though most parents face the challenges associated with divorce or separation in a healthy and successful manner without high-conflict interactions. However, according to Patel and Jones about 10% of divorce cases involving children disagreement on custody and visitation arrangements leads to litigation(2008). In these cases, it is often left to the court to make decisions about custody, and several custody cases are referred to court-appointed mental health experts during the process.…

    • 2364 Words
    • 10 Pages
    Best Essays
  • Good Essays

    I am living proof of how parents put their children in the middle of their marital issues. My parents have been talking about getting a divorce for a couple of years now. They always ask myself and my little brother if they were ever to get a divorce who would go with whom. At first I would say “I am going with mommy”. Now since I am older and wiser I just walk away from the conversation. But my little brother says “I going with daddy”. When he says that I feel so broken hearted because he does not know what he says may have ramifications in the end. This short little story is why I whole heartily believe young children need to be left out of divorce proceedings.…

    • 767 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Divorce or the parent separation is a major life change for the children and can…

    • 1047 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    When parents are divorced they really think of their children? Do they consider the implications of divorce on their children? What should be the priority during the divorce? Below is the story of Craig a young lady who shares her feelings about her parents’ divorce.…

    • 1099 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Powerful Essays

    Children & Divorce

    • 2056 Words
    • 6 Pages

    Judith Wallerstein noted in a controversial study that children of divorce are much more likely to be troubled as adults. She also states that couples with children should try their hardest to work things out and stay together. Some people disagree, saying that some bad marriages can be worse than just divorcing (Children). There is some logic behind this rebuttal, but, being a child of a divorced couple myself, this is not the way to think about it. My parents may have fought when they were married, but after the divorce, things got much worse. Not only has the fighting gotten worse, but they now talk about each other to my siblings and me. This is devastating for my siblings and I, because we would…

    • 2056 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Powerful Essays