She promises herself, “ I won’t be what I’m not,” (2). Jing-mei realizes that she should be herself. She knows that she will not let her mother change her. She is promising herself that she will not change for anyone. She now knows that she is not going to become a prodigy because that is not who she is or who she wants to be. To sum up, Jing-mei learns about her identity during one of her mother’s bothersome tests.
Lastly, the narrator from “The Bass, The River, and Sheila Mant” learns about his identity from one significant mistake he made to impress his crush. For example, the fourteen year-old boy has to decide between Sheila Mant, his crush, and a bass, his biggest catch ever. His crush, Sheila, does not like fishing, so he has to try to hide the fish. Fishing is something he loves to do, but he also loves Sheila. The boy decides to cut the fishing line and he later learned that he had made a huge mistake and “...the memory of that lost bass haunted me [the narrator] all summer and haunts me still,” (5). The boy now knows that he should not have cut the fishing line. He realizes that he should not change himself to impress anyone, even someone as beautiful