Okonkwo was brought to wealth and respect by becoming a warrior of …show more content…
Like ethnic groups in nigeria today, each have their own techniques and instruments, and songs. bronze carvings dating back to the 16th and 17th centuries have been found depicting musicians and their unique instruments, like unoka and his unique instrument and creative way of playing it is similar to the way people play their music and instruments today in nigeria. In addition to his creativity and ability to play the flute is very rare in this day and age in the us beside school bands, it could be a very sought upon talent in nigeria and would have lead unoka to more opportunities to succeed and okonkwo may have not thought of his father was worthless okonkwo may have not been how he is …show more content…
I know you will not despair. You have a manly and a proud heart. A proud heart can survive a general failure because such a failure does not prick its pride. It is more difficult and bitter when a man fails alone.” so he was showing compassion for okonkwo and saying that is it's better to fail together then for him to fail alone but okonkwo saw that as being effeminate when he was showing emotion that he didn't like. Even though Unoka’s words are given generously to keep hopes high, Okonkwo still did not appreciate unoka's speech. Okonkwo doesn’t value words he prefers action over speech. However, this renders him unable to appreciate the little sincerity's of others words and keeps him from expressing himself in a way that most people understand, so we can conclude that both unoka and okonkwo are polar opposite because okonkwo disapproved of unoka's bad habits and wanted nothing to do with him after the feeling of betrayal of