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How to make your crush like you
Paraparaan Lang Yan: How will I make My Crush Like Me using Classical Conditioning? Coming from a girl with no first-hand experience with making a crush like her, it would be hard to think of ways on how to make a person like you. Making a person like you, as a friend, might be easy and it comes with learning to be honest, to understand, and be there for that person both in happy and hard times. But making your crush like you? I think it’s really hard considering the fact that you (well, in my case, I) will be speechless if your crush would suddenly approach you. Imagine the rapid budump-budump of your heart when you see your crush! Nevertheless, I have come up anyway with some ways that I have seen in television shows and in my social world. Some of these ways are based on my experience as the one liking the person and unconsciously the one making the person like me. And, well, one is theoretical because I just made it up. How to make you crush like you Tip # 1: Be there and be seen when something big or some happy event happens. This is because if you are ‘always’HOhhhH there or if he sees you most of the times during those events when he’s enjoying; later on, just by seeing you, he will associate you with happy events because it reminds him of happy times. For example, I met my college crush during my first year, first semester, on our Fieldtrip to Bohol and Cebu in History 1. Basically, I had a crush on him because he was there when most of my first times began here in UP. Since, I had most of my first times during that trip (first time traveling alone without my family, first time to Bohol and Cebu, first fieldtrip for 4 days, etc.); it was one of the happiest, strangest, adrenaline-rush times in my life. It was even also due to approximation that I really developed a crush on him because sometimes he would sit close to where I am—things like that. So, naturally, whenever I see him, I remember those short happy encounters () during the trip. Happy

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