Invest in yourself -Take the time and put in the effort to invest in yourself. The more you learn, the more you will be able to put into action what you have learned. Make sure that you find out everything you can about the things which you feel will be able to bring you closer to achieving your goals and then use this information and begin to take…
First, be confident. Like most of us, I used to be very unsure of myself. But it only motivated me to work harder and get faster. I was so blessed to have a great father figure like my dad, my counselor and my second coach. And great coaches who knew my potential, and did everything humanly possible to inspire me to capitalize on it.…
develop knowledge and skills in areas in which you may be weak. For this learning and…
When you do more, you attain less so mastering the art of doing less you achieve more, one of the major ways to learn how to achieve more is to stop worrying, learning to accept the way things are rather than entombing yourself in trepidation and anxiety…
Be always sure about what are you doing – if I am doing something or making important decisions then I always need to have confidence that I am doing right because if I will not know how to reach my goals and fail afterwards then only one who I can blame will be I.…
me the clue how to improve my effectiveness, how to strengthen my thinking and self…
I tried my best to fit in but arriving at a completely new area and having to make new friends was an extremely scary thought for me. I didn’t know anyone, I didn’t have any friends, and I felt isolated. All I wanted to do was go back to California to the familiar faces I left behind. As the year progressed, I was forced to break my shell and interact with others in my class gradually becoming more confident in myself and making new friends. The internal battles I had to endure in me becoming more social eventually taught me not to be afraid to build relationships. Learning this at an early stage was very beneficial to me because now I am not afraid to talk to complete strangers and even befriend…
understand that being part of a social group is not as important as having strong self values.…
“Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow.” This quote said by author Ralph Waldo Emerson is often said by athletes, businessmen, and optimists alike and give them an extra boost of encouragement. From my personal experiences and thoughts, it is true that if one never tries to improve, one never will. When I want to become a leader, when an acquaintance wants to become better, and when one truly believes in themselves, we can master anything.…
In my own experience of transformational change we’ll use my life from 18 to now. When I was young I had no direction in life I just wanted to do something not even knowing what. As I joined the Army I still didn’t have too much of an idea of what I wanted to do in life. I was just there because it paid the bills at first and gave me a place to live. I recognized that I still had a problem of not knowing what I wanted to do with my life. It was until I was in Iraq and I had to confront the fact that I didn’t want to always put my life in danger to make a living and support my family so I started planning intensely on finding a solution to my problem. As you now in life there are no easy fixes so I ended up going back to Iraq 4 more times before I came up with a solution. The solution I found was early retirement with all benefits go back to school to get my business degree. So now I had to integrate my new perceptive into my life plans. I put all my plans…
Be the best that you can be. Don’t give up on something just because those around you disagree. Don’t try to please everyone. Do what you love and keep undertaking the best. Believe in yourself, and you will succeed. Prove to those who don’t believe in you that you’re not a failure. Albert Einstein as a kid didn’t speak fluently until he was nine. His teachers thought he was slow and he was suspended for being rebellious. He is widely known now as “the most influential physicist of the 20th century” (Biography.com). Just because people think you’re not smart enough doesn’t mean you can’t have a chance at…
There are also many things that could affect an outcome. When thinking of change training and goal setting is a major key. Someone who is willing to set goals and work hard to accomplish the goals set, is someone who is willing to change their mind set for the better. Having a positive attitude is a great benefit when deciding to change your life for the better. Another characteristic of change is recognition. When thinking of change, knowing the issue is most of the hard work. Identifying the issue to any problem and having the a plan to solve already puts the problem in the past. Having the ability to make good from a bad situation creates positive vibes. Lastly confidence is a major key to having a positive change. Confidence give the person in control the ability to trust the process. Often times people build bad habits of second guessing themselves. Adapting and becoming more confident has a greater chance of eliminating the thoughts of second guessing. Confidence takes a person a long way, changing the mindset and becoming more confident could affect and alter the person's way of thinking, which could lead to better changes in many people's…
my social life is extremely changed. I used to be a social person and had a lot of friends. As soon as I came to the USA I decided to limit my friends. Because friends need a lot of sacrifices at least sacrificing in time. Now I adjust myself with limiting friends because I came here with a lofty target , which is complete my master's degree and hope to achieve it without wasting time. My life here is difficult and without friend is more difficult, but I always say to myself the difficulties that I faced now will make me happy in all my life if I get my lofty…
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'…
We do not lack in ideas of changing our society, but proper guidance is not being provided to us. We can bring change in the society if we are allowed to do something, but from where we should get started. Is there any platform for the youth; is there any organization for the youth to just get together for any cause? Is there any society for the youth to lead them nationwide? The answer is a big NO. Unfortunately in Pakistan no such organization has been formed yet which could motivate our generation in such positive way that can bring change in our society. Youth ministry is there in Pakistan but without planning and without any proper formation, even many of us, are not even aware of what actually…