We moved out of her old, old folks home into a new old folks home where she would get more attention. When we started visiting her there, my parents started telling me and my sister not to be bothered by her asking the same question twice and answer as if it was the first time she had asked it. A little later that year my dad began to look worried and we it was getting close to the end. We then received a call from the doctor telling us that she was going to pass soon we were devastated. We couldn't believe it. We all wished we had more time. My dad drove to her as soon as he got the news. 3 days after he drove up, she passed in her sleep. We were at target when we heard the news and I cried the whole way home and then cried the rest of the day. We drove up to be with my dad the next day and cleaned out her room which was incredibly sad for my whole family. We stayed at my aunt's house which was a couple miles away from my grandma's home. The funeral was a couple days later and I cried the whole way through that too. My dad was a blank page. Trying to make us feel better, but clearly hurt. After the funeral we went home. A few days later the realization came in for my sister and she was out of it crying herself to…
The day that my grandma passed away is the most vivid day of my life, and its something that will forever be burnt into my memories. I lived the entirety of my childhood with my grandma; after her death, my already ravaged childhood became force and almost non-existent.…
Even to this day, I don't know how my grandma had so much love for someone who she could barely remember. Yet, since my grandma's condition was bad I naturally helped out my family with my great grandma. I would bring in and out sodas for her since she had a mad addiction to the fizzy drink, and sometimes I would bring her hot meals. Even though doing all of that was great, my favorite thing to do for her was to keep her company. On the most beautiful of days, we would go out and sit on the neon yellow swing set in front of our house in early afternoons when the leaves were turning a beautiful shade of brown and the weather was just the right temperature. The wind sang alluring songs in your ears as the branches of the lush trees danced to the melody. I can picture it just like it was yesterday. The pond next to us glimmered a light blue color as the swing squeaked in glee. She would sing the same tune each time and i would drift into a world of peace and tranquility where nothing else mattered at that moment. But as a little girl, I took those special moments for granted. I was too oblivious to know that good things don't last forever, they never…
My best friend Leah Nepomuceno is one of the strongest people I know, especially when it comes to family. Family to her is everything and she has done all she can to try and keep hers together as a whole. We were in sixth grade swinging on the swings outside at recess, whispering and giggling about our usual gossip when she received news from one of our teachers that we knew was serious by the look on her face and fear in her voice. She came up to us and told her she needed to go the office and that she was being dismissed, she gave me permission to walk with her inside. On the short but long felt walk inside Leah's heart was pounding, her hands were sweating, and her eyes were slowly filling with tears. Her mom was sitting in the big, blue, leather office chair with many of our elementary school teachers huddled around her sharing their sincere heart felt sympathy and much needed support. Leah's mom, Deb, had found out that day that her husband Ron, Leah's dad, was diagnosed with ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig's disease. The doctor had told Deb that is was going to slowly take away all of his muscles, eventually killing him and there was no cure for it. This news was heart wrenching for me to hear, since they were my second family, I grew up with them, Ron was my second dad. "It was like the last 11 years of memories with my dad flashed before my eyes and I didn't know what to do besides think of all the things we haven't done that we need to do before he dies," Leah replied when I asked her what her first thought was when she heard the news (Nepomuceno). Just talking to her now about it, 7 years later, is still just as heart breaking and you can hear the sadness in her voice.…
I could tell people this is why I don’t try or want to do anything but I don’t because I know that my grandma would never want. I feel that anyone going through the loss of a friend or family member should always think of the positive outlook instead of the negative. Looking at the negative side of it can create all different kinds of problems for a person. If you look at the positive you can use that as motivation to do anything in life. Life can get hard but you can never let the hardships depict and destroy your life. You aren’t on this earth for a long time so you have to make the best of…
Ever since I can remember I spent almost ever y day at my Grandparents house. They live right down the road from my family and me, and that is how they got the title “Grandma and Grandpa down the road”. They lived in a small house three bedrooms, one bathroom, and a small living room with a fire place that can worm the coldest heart. And in their back yard stood a shed filled with old farm equipment and stray cats with their kittens that I would try to catch every day. They are now both 78 years old and sadly not very healthy. My grandpa was diagnosed with lung cancer in October, and it changed my grandpa’s life, my family’s life, and my life.…
“Come on boog we need to go and pick up Granny” “Ok” I say to my Grandma. “Ok Grandma I’m good now, do we have everything “? “Yes we do have everything we have the close the food and the drinks too” said my Grandma . We drove to my Granny’s house, it does not take so long it is alony like 20 minutes to get there. Then we were there and we seen my Granny waiting by her steps and me and my Grandma lafit at her because whenever we go and pick her up she is always by the front steps waiting for us. Then my Granny got in the car but I did get in the back set so she could sit in the front and now it’s time to go and get my Aunty Rithy in Colorado Springs. I would have fallen asleep but I was too excited because it was my first…
All battered and scarred from many years of trials, Grandma always has a smile on her face. Grandpa died when she was still young, her three sons have also died, and only her two daughters remain. In spite of these difficulties in her life, she manages to be happy and accepting of what life has tossed her way. An older person has scars from life and doesn’t have the strength to fight for it. The elderly have gone through many trials and afflictions that life has tossed at them. With age, they have gained wisdom and understanding through these hardships. Life has a tendency to cruelly throw darts at humanity without any kind of reservation or remorse.…
Grandma is kind full,of heart….No matter where I am. What I’m doing. She follows every step. She makes sure I am alright and how I’m doing in life.…
We all face major hardships in our life, but I’ve met very few that have gone through as many as my grandma has. Being born into a world of war and terror is simply unimaginable, but my grandma had to go through it all. Never seeing what life is truly supposed to be like seems depressing, and not knowing when it will end seems even more. My grandma may argue that for her it wasn’t that bad because she didn’t know that life could be any better and was accustomed to living in a war, but from an outside point of view I will never really understand. At the end of the day, this strong woman pulled through and was able to find success. Looking back at her past, my grandma says that she is grateful for the opportunities she was given. My grandma had to go through all the phases of a hero’s journey including the departure, the initiation, and the return.…
i never got to know or even meet my grandmother. she died before i was born and all I know about her death is that it was from cancer, and the effect it had on her family including my dad was profound. I couldn't even ask about her without my dad getting deeply saddened, so I ceaced asking. the things i did know about here were few in number and small in detail, the they were good things, like she was pretty or kind, or even good at fishing. on valentine's day, when I was maybe twelve, i received a card in the mail from my and my step grandma. inside, there was a note wishing me a good valentine's day, and a necklace with a charm, and only a little note reading “This was your grandma Arline's necklace”. The necklace chain itself was…
I dreamed of you earlier. I was sitting in the sofa and there you were walking in the livingroom toward me. I told you I had a dream that you was dead. I told you I was so happy it was just a dream but now that I am awake I will love you double and spend all the time I have with you. I look up to you but you turn your back and walk away. I wish all of this was just a dream. I wish you was still here than I can really love you once again Grandma. I miss you so much! Thanks for visiting me in this weather. I love you.…
Ever since I was a young girl, my grandmother and I held a connection that was beyond any connection that I have ever had with someone. I grew up with her and she taught me many things that have shaped the person I am today. She was one of the very few people who really understood me and I valued her deeply. My grandmother passed away on March 17th, 2014. It was the most tragic event that has ever occurred in my life. Words could not describe the hurt I felt when it finally sunk in that I would never be able to see her again. I had a very hard time coping with her death, and it took a very negative toll on me. I started to question my life and what it really meant. What made it even worse is that I usually do not open up about any of my feelings so it was really hard for me to deal with this situation and make it seem like I was okay. I built a wall between my feelings and the world and I started feeling very isolated and alone which made things ten times worse. I lost connections with myself, the people around me and even God because I blamed him for taking away someone who meant so much to me. I began to think that life was worthless and that we are here for such a short time with no eventual purpose. I then grew older and became more mature. Life was throwing itself at me and I began to appreciating things more. I realized that even though life is short and maybe there might be no purpose,…
She was born on November nineteenth, 1956. She was born in Iowa. She was raised by her two loving and compassionate parents. Her father was a banker and her mother was an owner of a market where people sold their good at. My grandma had three siblings. She had one brother and two sisters. They were raised in a beautiful home. When my grandma hit the age of eighteen she eventually found the love of her dreams and had two kids with him. One was a boy and one was a girl. The boy eventually becomes my dad. The girl eventually becomes my aunt. My grandma worked at a metals place for two years. She then became a CNA. Then became an LPN. She eventually divorced her husband due to him cheating on her with another woman and getting the other girl pregnant. My grandma said she was not mad at him, she loved him but was just disappointed in his decisions. She eventually took care of her two children by herself. My grandma found out when her daughter was sixteen she was using drugs. My grandma made her go to a rehab for drug abuse. She was gone for six weeks for it. She came back good. She didn’t want to do drug and was very happy that her mom put her through that. After a couple years later my Aunt became pregnant with her first child. My grandma allowed them to live with her. After a couple of years she became hooked back on drugs but this time it was worse, my grandma tried to put her back in a rehab but because she was an adult she could not force her. After she hit the age twenty-three she was pregnant again with her second child. She was still using drugs until three months before she had to give birth. My grandma still allowed her to live under her roof knowing that she was still doing drugs and was pregnant. My grandma eventually had enough courage and kicked her out after she had her second child. It wasn’t because of the drugs, but instead, it was the way she abused my grandma mentally and my grandma had had…
Miss Me but Let Me Go was the poem that my grandmother carried in her wallet, and I now carry it in my heart. As a gleeful eleven year old, I had no awareness that my life was about to drastically change, the day I found out my Grandma Charlene was admitted to the hospital with pneumonia. My dad and I went to the hospital to visit her on January 18th, 2011. She seemed very weak, which wasn’t normal for her. It wasn’t pneumonia, but something worse, stage four lung cancer. From the time of diagnosis to the time of her death was less than thirty days. In those four weeks I saw her at her best and her worst. One quality that never changed was her strong will, fighting hard to the end. February 16th, 2011 was a normal day, as my mom dropped…