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Gender Identity In The Crying Game
What is your inside a man or a woman?

In the movie," The Crying Game," the author illuminates different perspective about gender identity. The story started when a soldier has been taken by IRA terrorist group. The pensioner, Jude, built a friendship with one the men who called Fergus. Jude told Fergus a story about a scorpion wanted to pass a river on frog's back without stinging the frog, but the scorpion stung the frog, and the scorpion said," I can't help it, it's my nature."when Fergus took the order to shot Jude, Fergus couldn't do it because it's his nature. Jude told him to look up his girlfriend, Dil. He did and was fallen in love with her. However, he surprised when he found out that she is a man. I mean "a male transvestite". He was shocked and not accept the situation in the
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A person begins to realize his identity from eighteen months to two years. Then, from age five to seven, they determine their gender and persist. So how it happens? The answer is they learn by sight and absorption from their surroundings despite their anatomy. They want to see what and how the society sees them. As a result, the society grouped people according to their characteristics. The feminine is marked by submission and passively. Masculinely is aggressive and dominance.
Moreover, in" Sunday in the park" reflects how the other gender sees and expects the opposite gender. The writer begins by a description of a man who has different traits. Then, when Joe throws the sand at Larry, the waif wants to reinforce the muscling character in her son who only is three years old she gives him a sight that you should not cry. In addition, the waif anticipates the different reaction from her husband to protect her and her son when he is about to fight with the Joe's father. At the end of the story, the woman is disheartened and says by an indirect way that you are not a real

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