Eight Misconceptions She Wants To Clear Up
“I Interviewed A Mistress And Here’s 8 Common Misconceptions She Wants To Clear Up” By “Amanda Chatel, 2015” is an article about Chatel’s interview with celebrity mistress Sarah J. Symonds and about her 8 misconceptions that she and every mistress wants to clear out. Symonds is a former mistress of famous chef and T.V host Gordon Ramsey and Lord Jeffrey Archer who’s out run the old stereotypes about mistresses with her show The Mistress shown on the discovery channel and slice T.V. Chatel talked to Symonds about what it’s like to be the other woman, and what the biggest misconceptions about mistresses are. Here’s what she had to say. 1. Mistresses are always better looking or younger than the wife Movies like The Other Woman, likes the
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There is a specific ‘type’ when it comes to women who are likely to be mistresses. Literally any women or men can be a mistress. Its not as though it’s pointed out into a specific type of women, they don’t have to young, and beautiful. It can be the nerdy person in the office who you don’t even notice. 3. They are always ‘kept women’ In perfect honesty: Not all man who have affairs has a huge check in their pockets, to put his mistress up in the Penthouse of some Condo where she can live happily on room service and in-house massages until the end of time. It’s a fact that sometimes, according to Symonds, “ there are instances when the mistress is the one with the big bucks and she’s the one lending the money to him” 4. They are home-wreckers According to Chatel this one is going to sound a bit crazy, when Symonds explains it, it makes perfect sense. “They keep a marriage together in that the man has a release. A place to go to and a person who understands him, the wife goes to the happier man, husband and …show more content…
Mistresses get to have all the fun In truth, the mistresses is kind of the stress reliever to the husband, they are the ones who picks up the husband, they cater the husband, massage them etc. becoming according to Symonds calls a “second wife.” She says “The other woman benefits a wife when the wife has become lazy delegated her marital duties, and yet the wife is always so angry when she finds out. I think wives should be a little more appreciative of mistresses!” 6. They are not in it for love For them mistress isn’t always about partying, having fun, and flirting. For mistresses it also hurts to be in love with someone, they can’t be with on special occasions, valentines, Christmas or even reunion with the family. They are called home wreckers because of the pain they bring to families but the mistresses is suffering in her own way too. 7. They’re bad people or ‘sluts’ Its pretty effortless to call mistress as sluts, home wreckers or spawns of the devil. But that not whole fully true. For them they can’t always choose they fall in love with, and there are just instances that they fall in love with someone is already married. The husbands also deserve to be blamed in the relationship. 8. Mistresses don’t understand the trouble it can
There is a specific ‘type’ when it comes to women who are likely to be mistresses. Literally any women or men can be a mistress. Its not as though it’s pointed out into a specific type of women, they don’t have to young, and beautiful. It can be the nerdy person in the office who you don’t even notice. 3. They are always ‘kept women’ In perfect honesty: Not all man who have affairs has a huge check in their pockets, to put his mistress up in the Penthouse of some Condo where she can live happily on room service and in-house massages until the end of time. It’s a fact that sometimes, according to Symonds, “ there are instances when the mistress is the one with the big bucks and she’s the one lending the money to him” 4. They are home-wreckers According to Chatel this one is going to sound a bit crazy, when Symonds explains it, it makes perfect sense. “They keep a marriage together in that the man has a release. A place to go to and a person who understands him, the wife goes to the happier man, husband and …show more content…
Mistresses get to have all the fun In truth, the mistresses is kind of the stress reliever to the husband, they are the ones who picks up the husband, they cater the husband, massage them etc. becoming according to Symonds calls a “second wife.” She says “The other woman benefits a wife when the wife has become lazy delegated her marital duties, and yet the wife is always so angry when she finds out. I think wives should be a little more appreciative of mistresses!” 6. They are not in it for love For them mistress isn’t always about partying, having fun, and flirting. For mistresses it also hurts to be in love with someone, they can’t be with on special occasions, valentines, Christmas or even reunion with the family. They are called home wreckers because of the pain they bring to families but the mistresses is suffering in her own way too. 7. They’re bad people or ‘sluts’ Its pretty effortless to call mistress as sluts, home wreckers or spawns of the devil. But that not whole fully true. For them they can’t always choose they fall in love with, and there are just instances that they fall in love with someone is already married. The husbands also deserve to be blamed in the relationship. 8. Mistresses don’t understand the trouble it can