The greatest focus of divorce's effect on children has been on the weeks, months, and the first few years following the divorce. Every year, over one million children in the United States are faced with the reality of their parents divorcing. Statistically, a couple's marriage lasts about 7.2 years prior to divorcing and there are about 1,250,000 divorces per year in the United States. 2 of 5 children will experience the divorce of their parents before they reach the age of 18. About 25 percent of all children will spend some time in a step family.
I have come to find out that there are many different phases when it comes to divorce which makes it even more complex. The divorcing couple, as well as the entire family, experiences a variety of abrupt changes which impacts nearly …show more content…
Personality characteristics of the child and the ability to develop coping skills is one of them. The ability of the child to find and use their support systems is another. Children tend to have a lot of build up aggression after dealing with their parents divorce. Some of these effects emerge rapidly and some of them increase over the first few years following divorce and then decline. Sometimes, children can recover quickly but that is usually because of denied feelings so then later on those feelings towards their parents divorce emerge at some point in their