Domestic Violence Research Paper
|WEBSTER UNIVERSITY FALL 2009 |
|THE COMPLICATED DYNAMICS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE |
|HOW IT PROVOKES THE COUNSELOR/HELPER RELATIONSHIP |
| |
|Shannon L Crockett |
|10/1/2009 …show more content…
Allowing yourself to feel more empathy for one group verses another could easily be perceived as you believing perhaps another group could have somehow prevented the abuse.
Audra J. Bowlus & Shannon Seitz, 2006. "Domestic Violence, Employment, And Divorce," International Economic Review, Department of Economics, University of Pennsylvania and Osaka University Institute of Social and Economic Research Association, vol. 47(4), pages 1113-1149, November.
Catalano, S. Intimate Partner Violence in the United States. Washington, DC: U.S. Department of Justice, Bureau of Justice Statistics, December 2007, www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/intimate/ipv.htm
Hugo Mialon & Sue Mialon, 2006. "Violence against women, social learning, and deterrence," Journal of Evolutionary Economics, Springer, vol. 16(4), pages 367-382, October.
Malcoe, L., and B. Duran. “Intimate Partner Violence and Injury in the Lives of Low-Income can Women.” Violence Within the Family, including National Institute of Justice, grant number 5R03-DA/AA11154. Washington, DC: U.S. Department of Justice, National Institute of Justice, 2004, NCJ …show more content…
CO-DEPENDENT: I am afraid of being hurt or rejected.
ABUSED: Having been hurt and rejected, I am scared of re-victimization.
CO-DEPENDENT: I tend to harshly judge everything I do, think, or say, by someone else's standards. Nothing is done, said or thought "good enough."
ABUSED: My abuser harshly judges everything I do, think, or say. Nothing I do is "good enough."
CO-DEPENDENT: I question or ignore my own values to connect with significant others. I value others' opinions more than my own.
ABUSED: My values and opinions are questioned/ignored by my abuser. For my safety I do not express my own opinions.
CO-DEPENDENT: My self-esteem is bolstered by outer/other influences.
ABUSED: My self-esteem is systematically destroyed by my abuser's tactics.
Checklists to help you determine if you are in an abusive relationship.
You are probably the victim of emotional abuse if your partner:
• Repeatedly gives you destructive criticism, verbal threats and browbeating.
• Always claims to be right.
• Excludes you from making decisions and claims to be the head of the household.
• Abuses your trust by lying, hiding important information and papers, cheating or being inappropriately
|THE COMPLICATED DYNAMICS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE |
|HOW IT PROVOKES THE COUNSELOR/HELPER RELATIONSHIP |
| |
|Shannon L Crockett |
|10/1/2009 …show more content…
Allowing yourself to feel more empathy for one group verses another could easily be perceived as you believing perhaps another group could have somehow prevented the abuse.
Audra J. Bowlus & Shannon Seitz, 2006. "Domestic Violence, Employment, And Divorce," International Economic Review, Department of Economics, University of Pennsylvania and Osaka University Institute of Social and Economic Research Association, vol. 47(4), pages 1113-1149, November.
Catalano, S. Intimate Partner Violence in the United States. Washington, DC: U.S. Department of Justice, Bureau of Justice Statistics, December 2007, www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/intimate/ipv.htm
Hugo Mialon & Sue Mialon, 2006. "Violence against women, social learning, and deterrence," Journal of Evolutionary Economics, Springer, vol. 16(4), pages 367-382, October.
Malcoe, L., and B. Duran. “Intimate Partner Violence and Injury in the Lives of Low-Income can Women.” Violence Within the Family, including National Institute of Justice, grant number 5R03-DA/AA11154. Washington, DC: U.S. Department of Justice, National Institute of Justice, 2004, NCJ …show more content…
CO-DEPENDENT: I am afraid of being hurt or rejected.
ABUSED: Having been hurt and rejected, I am scared of re-victimization.
CO-DEPENDENT: I tend to harshly judge everything I do, think, or say, by someone else's standards. Nothing is done, said or thought "good enough."
ABUSED: My abuser harshly judges everything I do, think, or say. Nothing I do is "good enough."
CO-DEPENDENT: I question or ignore my own values to connect with significant others. I value others' opinions more than my own.
ABUSED: My values and opinions are questioned/ignored by my abuser. For my safety I do not express my own opinions.
CO-DEPENDENT: My self-esteem is bolstered by outer/other influences.
ABUSED: My self-esteem is systematically destroyed by my abuser's tactics.
Checklists to help you determine if you are in an abusive relationship.
You are probably the victim of emotional abuse if your partner:
• Repeatedly gives you destructive criticism, verbal threats and browbeating.
• Always claims to be right.
• Excludes you from making decisions and claims to be the head of the household.
• Abuses your trust by lying, hiding important information and papers, cheating or being inappropriately