Divorce sample
Running Head: WAYS OF PREVENTING MARRIAGE FROM ENDING IN DIVORCE
Ways of Preventing Marriage from Ending in Divorce
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The modern society is undergoing tremendous change owing its progression to rural-urban migration, technology and exposure to internet. The traditional means of socialization are no longer applicable. Traditionally, marriage was a sacred activity which brought two persons of the opposite sex into one. The values, norms and beliefs regarding marriage were highly observed, and any violation attracted punitive measures. Those traditional marriages lasted indefinitely because issues such as loyalty, obedience, truthfulness, faithfulness and respect were heavily unquestionable (Celello, 2009). Men loved their women, and women were submissive to men. However, with increasing social dynamism, marriages are no longer stable, and most of the time conflicts result into divorce. Divorce cannot occur if we observe the following elements in a marriage. Firstly, both spouses should understand each other and freely express any element of discontent so that it is addressed appropriately (Doherty, 2001). Essentially, a healthy marriage calls for participatory decision making where both spouses are talking cooperatively on any matter affecting their family. Secondly, trust and loyalty are significant for any marriage to succeed. Parties involved should be able to make a win-win decision together so that every spouse is involved and satisfied of the outcome. The act strengthens both emotional and psychological perception of love for the individuals. Thirdly, respect for one another is important. To respect is to poses a deep feeling of admiration for something or someone based on their abilities or qualities. The element of respect helps prevent problematic marriages by stopping hostility. In a marriage, the argument of who is right can be solved through respecting each others ' opinion. Finally, most arguments that eventually
Ways of Preventing Marriage from Ending in Divorce
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The modern society is undergoing tremendous change owing its progression to rural-urban migration, technology and exposure to internet. The traditional means of socialization are no longer applicable. Traditionally, marriage was a sacred activity which brought two persons of the opposite sex into one. The values, norms and beliefs regarding marriage were highly observed, and any violation attracted punitive measures. Those traditional marriages lasted indefinitely because issues such as loyalty, obedience, truthfulness, faithfulness and respect were heavily unquestionable (Celello, 2009). Men loved their women, and women were submissive to men. However, with increasing social dynamism, marriages are no longer stable, and most of the time conflicts result into divorce. Divorce cannot occur if we observe the following elements in a marriage. Firstly, both spouses should understand each other and freely express any element of discontent so that it is addressed appropriately (Doherty, 2001). Essentially, a healthy marriage calls for participatory decision making where both spouses are talking cooperatively on any matter affecting their family. Secondly, trust and loyalty are significant for any marriage to succeed. Parties involved should be able to make a win-win decision together so that every spouse is involved and satisfied of the outcome. The act strengthens both emotional and psychological perception of love for the individuals. Thirdly, respect for one another is important. To respect is to poses a deep feeling of admiration for something or someone based on their abilities or qualities. The element of respect helps prevent problematic marriages by stopping hostility. In a marriage, the argument of who is right can be solved through respecting each others ' opinion. Finally, most arguments that eventually
References: Celello, K. (2009). Making marriage work: A history of marriage and divorce in the twentieth- century United States. Chapel Hill: University of North Carolina Press. Doherty, W. J. (2001). Take back your marriage: Sticking together in a world that pulls us apart. New York: Guilford Press.