Divorce
February 6, 2012
English 102
Dr. Spain
Is it your fault?
In recent years divorce has become more popular than ever before. Infidelity issues are one of the most common reasons for divorce. People often rush into marriage before they really get to know each other and they realize they should have never gotten married. Once couples are married they realize they don’t share the same values and this can lead to common grounds for divorce. The age at which people are getting married seems as though it is getting younger as the years progress. Alcoholism and drug abuse can also help destroy any marriage.
Many people who are married and have infidelity issues often try counseling to fix their marriage problems. “A marriage that has experienced infidelity in either partner has deep wounds that can trace their origin back to the time before the infidelity even occurred, though that may be sometimes hard to imagine.” If the couples have their mind set on divorce counseling will not work. In order to survive infidelity issues couples must work together and overcome the infidelity issues they are facing. “Marriage counseling, infidelity-related or otherwise, is an invaluable aid in a situation that can otherwise have moments of feeling utterly insurmountable.”
As the years pass it is common to see people getting married without full knowledge of who they are marrying. Couples who date for a certain time period often say, “I love you” and not, “I’m in love with you.” “I love you,” is three words that often confuse a relationship and sometimes are words said without meaning. “Marriages are sacred vows and hence should be undertaken only when two people in love are willing to enter into a lifetime commitment.” Sadly to say marriage is often the eye opener as to why some people should not be together.
No two people will ever share all the same values in a marriage. Even though they do not posses all the same values the concept of their values will be similar. “Your
English 102
Dr. Spain
Is it your fault?
In recent years divorce has become more popular than ever before. Infidelity issues are one of the most common reasons for divorce. People often rush into marriage before they really get to know each other and they realize they should have never gotten married. Once couples are married they realize they don’t share the same values and this can lead to common grounds for divorce. The age at which people are getting married seems as though it is getting younger as the years progress. Alcoholism and drug abuse can also help destroy any marriage.
Many people who are married and have infidelity issues often try counseling to fix their marriage problems. “A marriage that has experienced infidelity in either partner has deep wounds that can trace their origin back to the time before the infidelity even occurred, though that may be sometimes hard to imagine.” If the couples have their mind set on divorce counseling will not work. In order to survive infidelity issues couples must work together and overcome the infidelity issues they are facing. “Marriage counseling, infidelity-related or otherwise, is an invaluable aid in a situation that can otherwise have moments of feeling utterly insurmountable.”
As the years pass it is common to see people getting married without full knowledge of who they are marrying. Couples who date for a certain time period often say, “I love you” and not, “I’m in love with you.” “I love you,” is three words that often confuse a relationship and sometimes are words said without meaning. “Marriages are sacred vows and hence should be undertaken only when two people in love are willing to enter into a lifetime commitment.” Sadly to say marriage is often the eye opener as to why some people should not be together.
No two people will ever share all the same values in a marriage. Even though they do not posses all the same values the concept of their values will be similar. “Your
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