Causes and effects why women stay in abusive relationships
Causes and effects why women stay in abusive relationships The most important event in a person’s life perhaps is falling in love. Many people who fall in love marry each other, many breaks up or get divorced. But some of them are unlucky and get trapped in an abusive relationship; it is proven that women suffer from abusive relationship more often than men, and are less likely to leave them. It is most common the verbal abuse because it leave no evidence but the number of cases of physical abuse have incremented year by year, even so in some cases it seems as if it was a way of life for some people. Sometimes, women suffer from abuse for a long time, without being capable to break up with their abuser. It may seem that breaking up would be the best thing to do but, there are reasons why they don’t do this. In many cases, they feel they don’t have to leave an abusive relationship because they have gotten used to abusive behavior since childhood, so they do not see violence and abuse as something that’s bad for them. When coming from such families those women do not know other patterns of behavior, and therefore they have learned to expect abuse in any moment. These kinds of habits that come from the abusive childhood is what make it more difficult for these women’s to get out of these abusive relationships and the only way is by professional help. The reason why women stay with abusers is because they hope one day the abuse will stop and there partner will change. Sometimes the abuser notice what they have done and sincerely feel guilty, they try to make amends, calm their victim, and this is what gives women hope for the best. Many of the abusers tend to always say “this is the last time I’m really sorry”, and the abusive women prefer to notice only the positive behaviors in their abusive partners, for example being affectionate and dependable; the most common bringing flowers and chocolates, and likely justify, giving an excuse for their violent behavior;