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The good father archetype tends to be known as a loving, kind, balanced and over all the leader as well as the authoritative figure in a family structure. In the novel The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini, the father figure to the main character is known as Baba, who through out his life has done many great things to prove himself as a great man who in Amir’s eyes can do no wrong. Baba on the other hand has not seen Amir, as the ideal son, not because he doesn’t love him, but simply he does not seem him having the strength to become an adult. One of Baba’s greatest sadnesses we learn, is his lack of relationship with his son(s). Amir see’s Baba as a great, proud, and courageous man, who is always determined, but sometimes has a tendency to not express his feelings and therefore, seeming distant and unloving. Through out the book Baba proves his courage and fearless personality, for example, when Baba and Amir escape Kabul, Baba prevents a guard from raping an innocent woman, something Amir had already proved himself to cowardly to do. Throughout the book we learn Baba never was able to fully accept Amir as his son, the guilt ate at him all the time, and at the mid-end of the novel Baba builds an orphanage in order to make himself feel better about this sad fact. Once they move to America, and Baba no longer has his wealth or Hassan around, he and Amir begin to become closer in his final years. Baba and Amir’s relationship is one that many know, with some different conditions. Baba may not have always been the archetypal father figure he wanted to be, but none the less Amir looked up to him with the greatest honor and occasional envy. If Baba had let go of his pride, I believe the relationship between himself and Amir would have been different.

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