Autonomy In Childhood
Autonomy “refers to an adolescent’s growing ability to think, feel, make decisions, and act on her or his own.” The development of an individual’s autonomy starts long before the individual reaches puberty. When toddlers begin to explore their surroundings on their own and insist to do that as they please, they are creating a sense of autonomy. From an evolutionary view, adolescents search for independence is a natural effect of sexual and physical maturation, and going away from home after the individual reaches puberty has been observed not just in humans, but in other primates as well (Casey et al., 2010; Steinberg, 2014). “Puberty drives the adolescent away from exclusive emotional dependence on the family.” Also, cognitive changes are
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The first one is emotional autonomy, where the individual stablishes more adultlike and less immature close relationships, mainly with parents. The second one is behavioral autonomy, where the individual is able to make independent decisions and “follow through on them.” The third one is cognitive autonomy or sometimes called value autonomy, where the individual has their own values, beliefs, and opinions. The relationship between parents and their children go through different changes over the cycle of life. For example, changes in the expression of affection, the distribution of power, and patterns of verbal interaction. We can see the changes in the adolescent-parent relationship where the development of emotional autonomy is reflected in the following cases: older adolescents usually do not hurry their parents when they feel perturbed and need help, they don’t see their parents as powerful or divine persons, and they frequently feel a stronger attachment to people outside the family like a boyfriend or girlfriend than their own parents (McElhaney et al., 2009; Zimmer-Gembeck, Ducat & Collins, …show more content…
During adolescence, emotional autonomy demand transformation, not a separation, of family members. They can become emotionally autonomous without becoming detached from their parents (Laursen & Collins, 2009; McElhaney et al., 2009; Van Petegem, Vansteenkiste, & Beyers, 2012). Also, those adolescents who are capable of keeping a stability between autonomy and connectedness in their relationships with parents also are better able to balance autonomy and intimacy in their friendships and romantic relationships (Oudekirk, Allen, Hessel, & Molloy, 2015; Taradash, Conolly, Pepler, Craig, & Costa, 2001). Some theorists have kept the idea that “we view the development of emotional autonomy in terms of the adolescent’s developing sense of individuation” (Blos, 1967). Individuation starts in infancy and continues into late adolescence and imply a growing improvement of one’s self as autonomous, competent, and detach from parents. In contrast to detachment, individuation involves discontinuing childish dependencies on parents in order to have a more responsible, mature and less dependent relationship (McElhaney et al., 2009; Zimmer-Gembeck, Ducat, & Collins,
The first one is emotional autonomy, where the individual stablishes more adultlike and less immature close relationships, mainly with parents. The second one is behavioral autonomy, where the individual is able to make independent decisions and “follow through on them.” The third one is cognitive autonomy or sometimes called value autonomy, where the individual has their own values, beliefs, and opinions. The relationship between parents and their children go through different changes over the cycle of life. For example, changes in the expression of affection, the distribution of power, and patterns of verbal interaction. We can see the changes in the adolescent-parent relationship where the development of emotional autonomy is reflected in the following cases: older adolescents usually do not hurry their parents when they feel perturbed and need help, they don’t see their parents as powerful or divine persons, and they frequently feel a stronger attachment to people outside the family like a boyfriend or girlfriend than their own parents (McElhaney et al., 2009; Zimmer-Gembeck, Ducat & Collins, …show more content…
During adolescence, emotional autonomy demand transformation, not a separation, of family members. They can become emotionally autonomous without becoming detached from their parents (Laursen & Collins, 2009; McElhaney et al., 2009; Van Petegem, Vansteenkiste, & Beyers, 2012). Also, those adolescents who are capable of keeping a stability between autonomy and connectedness in their relationships with parents also are better able to balance autonomy and intimacy in their friendships and romantic relationships (Oudekirk, Allen, Hessel, & Molloy, 2015; Taradash, Conolly, Pepler, Craig, & Costa, 2001). Some theorists have kept the idea that “we view the development of emotional autonomy in terms of the adolescent’s developing sense of individuation” (Blos, 1967). Individuation starts in infancy and continues into late adolescence and imply a growing improvement of one’s self as autonomous, competent, and detach from parents. In contrast to detachment, individuation involves discontinuing childish dependencies on parents in order to have a more responsible, mature and less dependent relationship (McElhaney et al., 2009; Zimmer-Gembeck, Ducat, & Collins,