Do you ever feel like you can’t make your own decision, because of the thoughts of those around you? Have you ever thought that the decisions you make in life is based on someone else’s thoughts. Do you feel like you’ve changed and become someone different because of those you supposedly belong to? There are milestones in life that change you to be the person you are supposed to be. For example a major milestone in a person life can vary from being toilet trained to starting a form of education. As we spend a lot of time at school and work it can change us to become different, people like Cady Heron from the movie “Mean girls” started school different to how she ended school. Sandra Laing from the movie “Skin” schools’ experience didn’t entirely go the way it was planned; it changed her to become a complete different person. Though also the people who we belong to such as family members can change who we become and who we’d like to be, from the choices of those who belonged. From the movie “Skin” Sandra’s decision to spend her life with Petris changed her father, Abraham Laing, whose emotions towards Sandra also affected Sannie and Leon’s decisions in life. The people we belong to is essential to change of one’s self, though there are substances that can change a person from good to worst, like Petris, Sandra’s first husband.
Education and the schools you attend can shape you up to be a complete different person to the person you started to be. Like Cady Heron from the movie Mean girls started elementary school being nice, shy, kind and smart. She changed to becoming one of those bitchy, backstabbing girls who dumbed themselves down to get attention from the “it” crowd around her. Like Sandra Laing from the movie Skin, attends her first day at school. She began school smiling, excited and a happy student who wanted to answer questions in class to never being chosen, because of her race. This cause