Adult Parental Behavior Analysis

I decided to send this to you as this method allows me to think clearly and the liberty to express what I am feeling without any interruptions.
As an adult parent you were obligated to correcting those faults. Trying to reason with an adolescent child is unacceptable, and a parent must enforce limits and it is apparent you do not. You allow your daughter to set the rules with whom you spend your time with, you allow her to the run the show if you will. I refuse to be under her domain. As a perspective partner, I have expressed my concerns and have given you a considerable amount of time to address them time and again. Your daughters actions only prove that you have not invested the time to listen to me for these chronic issues of misbehavior …show more content…
It created a trigger for me. When whispering to you how sadden and humiliated I felt at the dinner table by your daughters behavior, you scoffed, "whatever!" And coldly returned to your mothers vehicle. You rudely replied, " later!" When my best friends kindly thanked you for treating us to lunch that afternoon. You spurned me, you dismissed my feelings as though they were invalid, unimportant. You made me feel as though I was with Bill and his daughter. I already am at vulnerable during this pregnancy and your daughters behavior made me feel violated. I could not speak to you without being interrupted, when I would reach for your hand, she would create a diversion to get your attention off of me. She was very rude. In efforts to get your attention I would tap your knee under the table, this was my "red flag" my sign for you to address your daughters attitude, which sadly was unsuccessful. At moments like this, I feel as though she is bullying me. I made it abundantly clear that I would not tolerate such behavior. I have made every effort to give your daughter her space. This is why I decline your offers in joining you both on trips for I wish her not to feel as though I am trying to take you away from her. She deserves all your attention when it is only the both of you and I deserve your attention when it is only the both of us. However, she has the most difficult time sharing you when we are all together. When you begin to …show more content…
Your attempts to reason with her fail and she only challenges you the more, and you tolerate it. The major concern I have is that Adam is not born and yet there are communication problems between us. You are setting the bar as to how Adam will be raised and I fear you do not have his best interest at heart for you allow your daughter the liberty to treat others as she sees fit. What less will you teach my son? Will you give him the same allowances to behave unruly? I feel as though you are not listening to my concerns. You make me feel as though my feelings are invalid. This makes me feel unloved and unwanted. This situation has me so stressed and when I returned home I cried my eyes out , and threw up what I ate because I was hurt by you both. Contractions were very strong that afternoon that I was in pain. This is not a healthy situation for me or my unborn child. Paul, I love